magevis
Don Juan
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I've struggled to find the best title for this thread, the one I have chosen might not be the best. Anyways, As I told you guys earlier, I'm letting that one go.Yes, the one that kicked me out. I no longer have any intention of contacting this girl again. I had been wondering what could have gone wrong but after some enlightening comments, I have decided to stop commenting about the issue for my own sanity, not to mention the legal aspect that some posters have brought up.
I really appreciate all your opinions but I'm not interested in that particular one Anymore. I'm done with that thread. My sole purpose for posting on here is to share ideas and obtain critical information that may help me towards my goal of acing my social life and getting good with women.
Eventually I'm hoping to find a decent lady with whom I could settle down with. I'm 31, I really have no intention of 'laying the pipe' left and right until the end of time.
It would probably do my confidence good but I have found that after sleeping with a girl and it leading to nowhere(no relationship or potential for one), I'm left more empty inside.
For some reason I can't seem to have a lasting relationship with the ladies. My longest relationship has been 7months. And was 6 years ago. I broke up with her because I felt she deserved more. She kept sending the odd text every other week but I ignored her and never responded, until her last text almost a year after the break up. This February I let go of a girl who seemed to love me and clearly wanted a relationship. Deep down I doubted her intentions, plus she had a lot of baggage that I won't delve into right now.
Between February and now I have had sex with one other lady apart from this one that kicked me out. It only happened once, mainly because she lives away from town, and made it clear that she has a boyfriend before we hooked up. I have gone on 3 other dates during this time that have led to nowhere.
Only 1 had agreed to a second date but I canceled, although she seems like a good prospect.
Another girl that I had been chasing sometime last year reached out on Christmas eve and then flaked when we made plans. Just this week I got a call from her but made excuses and hang up as I deemed her not serious enough. She could just be toying with me obviously.
I need help with a strategy that will be best for me. Hit and miss doesn't seem worth it. The women I meet, (I do cold-approach btw), how do I get the out on dates and keep their interest? AMS has said to have them on the phone long enough but I can't seem to talk past the 3 minute mark with most of these ladies. Mostly after asking her out, the line "I'll let you know'' gets dropped on me.
Even the few that agree to a date don't show up or completely ignore my filler text on the day of the date.
Authentic and helpful thoughts will be much appreciated.
I really appreciate all your opinions but I'm not interested in that particular one Anymore. I'm done with that thread. My sole purpose for posting on here is to share ideas and obtain critical information that may help me towards my goal of acing my social life and getting good with women.
Eventually I'm hoping to find a decent lady with whom I could settle down with. I'm 31, I really have no intention of 'laying the pipe' left and right until the end of time.
It would probably do my confidence good but I have found that after sleeping with a girl and it leading to nowhere(no relationship or potential for one), I'm left more empty inside.
For some reason I can't seem to have a lasting relationship with the ladies. My longest relationship has been 7months. And was 6 years ago. I broke up with her because I felt she deserved more. She kept sending the odd text every other week but I ignored her and never responded, until her last text almost a year after the break up. This February I let go of a girl who seemed to love me and clearly wanted a relationship. Deep down I doubted her intentions, plus she had a lot of baggage that I won't delve into right now.
Between February and now I have had sex with one other lady apart from this one that kicked me out. It only happened once, mainly because she lives away from town, and made it clear that she has a boyfriend before we hooked up. I have gone on 3 other dates during this time that have led to nowhere.
Only 1 had agreed to a second date but I canceled, although she seems like a good prospect.
Another girl that I had been chasing sometime last year reached out on Christmas eve and then flaked when we made plans. Just this week I got a call from her but made excuses and hang up as I deemed her not serious enough. She could just be toying with me obviously.
I need help with a strategy that will be best for me. Hit and miss doesn't seem worth it. The women I meet, (I do cold-approach btw), how do I get the out on dates and keep their interest? AMS has said to have them on the phone long enough but I can't seem to talk past the 3 minute mark with most of these ladies. Mostly after asking her out, the line "I'll let you know'' gets dropped on me.
Even the few that agree to a date don't show up or completely ignore my filler text on the day of the date.
Authentic and helpful thoughts will be much appreciated.
