"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How do I breakup with my girlfriend without hurting her?

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Accension

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I was thinking of sending her a message that says, "I'm too busy for a relationship," but only closer look, she might stick around because I've implied that later when I'm not busy, she still has a chance.

I want to be final, but polite. Any help?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Simple answer: You don't.

Longer answer: No matter how you play this, she will get hurt. She is in love with you(or loves you), and being told that someone you have those feelings for doesn't want to be with you hurts like hell.

However, the way in which you break up does help a little. If you want to stomp her heart to pieces, you rub in all her bad habits and how you hate them. If you want to break her heart gentle, you put the blame with yourself. How you twist it, doesn't really matter, as long as you make it sound like that you are not good for her. (Notice how I left out "good enough", because that would pedestalize her)

I dumped a plate who was madly in love with me by telling her how dominant I am and that I would crush her and push her into a corner. That she needed someone more gentle than me. Still hurt her feelings, but at least she didn't have to hear how clingy/needy and submissive(in a bad way) she was.
 
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Do it in person, and tell her the truth so she doesnt make the same mistake again.
 
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