How do DJs act around 'she who rejected him' (AFC days)

[Secondtimeround]

We are lab partners. Otherwise I'd just be happy to NC and get on with my life. This all happened on the cusp of my change in life to become a better man. I keep kicking myself about why I ignored my gut instinct and let my white knighthood cloud my judgement. I don't see nor want any future dealings with her. But I want to keep things on friendly terms at least until we part class in a few months.

My worry is word of mouth will get around. She's the emotional exaggerating type. I did nothing but stupidly flirt too much and came on too strong via text (more AFC sweetness than sexual). Thing is I have a plate in this class not to mention 3/4 are in my faculty (all girls). She is still treating me super nicely, kino and smiling etc so at least pity may save my butt.

I only plan on being my same self during class and if I bump into her (exchanging hellos). Besides that, it's no more messaging and straight in and out of class compared to when we use to turn up earlier and walk around after.

Any one had experience on keeping to good terms with rejecting HBs? I've basically cancelled out going after any others in this class in case it seems I'm just moving on to the next thing with 4 limbs and boobs. Just already another of our mutual friends in class has blocked me or disabled her facebook after I got in contact asking for help with what we learnt today (legitimately with no ulterior motive).

 

[lamobatsman]

We are lab partners. Otherwise I'd just be happy to NC and get on with my life. This all happened on the cusp of my change in life to become a better man. I keep kicking myself about why I ignored my gut instinct and let my white knighthood cloud my judgement. I don't see nor want any future dealings with her. But I want to keep things on friendly terms at least until we part class in a few months.

My worry is word of mouth will get around. She's the emotional exaggerating type. I did nothing but stupidly flirt too much and came on too strong via text (more AFC sweetness than sexual). Thing is I have a plate in this class not to mention 3/4 are in my faculty (all girls). She is still treating me super nicely, kino and smiling etc so at least pity may save my butt.

I only plan on being my same self during class and if I bump into her (exchanging hellos). Besides that, it's no more messaging and straight in and out of class compared to when we use to turn up earlier and walk around after.

Any one had experience on keeping to good terms with rejecting HBs? I've basically cancelled out going after any others in this class in case it seems I'm just moving on to the next thing with 4 limbs and boobs. Just already another of our mutual friends in class has blocked me or disabled her facebook after I got in contact asking for help with what we learnt today (legitimately with no ulterior motive).

can u explain the whole story?

 

[AlexLefty]

Why do you care about staying on good terms with her.... I understand you don't want to get on her bad side but id expect more considering you're a "new man". You can't please everyone and the man understands that hes going to inadvertently piss some peeps off

 

[Zion]

How do DJs act around 'she who rejected him' (AFC days)

Like it never even happened.

 

[plate's_empty]

Like it never even happened.

Exactly.

The last thing you want to act is bvtt hurt.....unless of course you want to make sure she thinks sure an AFC. If anything, be happier, just don't give a fvck. Keep teasing her, ignore at the right times, get that hampster spinning. If she does end up asking out tell her you can't and then change the subject. Boom.

Edit: agreed with below. As in happy, I was referring to in general. Not happy to see her. Get the happy glow, like something's going on behind the scenes that you're totally content with, and the fact that she turned you down mattered absolutely nill.

 

[Uncharted]

I would also say to take it down a peg or two around her. Don't be overly happy to see her. Treat her like you would any other classmate. Also flirt with any other girls in your class. Just because you can.

 

[Secondtimeround]

Yeah normally thats the go for me but the fact remains I'm her lab partner and I still see her for another couple months 3 times a week in a class that involves A LOT of touching as part of its curriculum. The girls in my course have already formed a tight knit bond so word WILL get around if things go sour. Not to mention I'd rather finish the term on a good note and move on.

Cheers All. Yeah thats how I've been treating her and basically the same as all the girls in the class. No more special treatment. No more waiting together to walk off after class. It was just I noticed her being overly nicer and kino and one of her closer friends deleting me on facebook hence did not want this to have a flow on effect to all in the class and through my faculty. Girls here still have that type of 'highschool' mentality.