"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how do close the gap in the middle of your chest?

ABGPlayer

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cuz my gap is quite wide and it doesnt actually look very attractive so what can i do to narrow it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Chewy Bagel

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Sounds like genetics - you can't change that. You can hope that you'll be able to fill this gap by building muscle in your inner pec area, but some people get the short end of the stick as far as muscle appearance and where the muscle is attached to the bone. Some people have high biceps, high lats (me), a 4-pac instead of a 6-pack (me), etc.

The best way to build your inner chest is to do cable crossovers, dumbell flies (incline, flat) and pec dec. Do all the other chest exercises as well.
 

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I stand corrected - I'm just telling him what I *thought* was working for me and what I have been told for years. Here is further evidence supporting the fact that there is no "inner chest."
Just train hard and hope for the best, AGBPlayer.

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Written by : Matt "Powerman"

Q: My upper inner chest isn’t growing. What can I do to target it?

A: First a clarification: there is no such thing as an “upper inner” chest. It physically does not exist. Your chest is one muscle which stretches from the shoulder to the sternum, and has two points of attachment; these happen to be an upper and lower attachment. So yes, technically there is an upper and lower chest. However, it doesn’t matter from the standpoint of either anatomical function or aesthetics, because both the upper and lower head of the chest perform the exact same function regarding the body’s movement.

This means that there is no way to contract the upper head independently of the lower head, and vice versa. It cannot happen. Since the heads cannot contract independently, there is no way that any greater or lesser stress could be applied to them with an exercise, so emphasizing the growth of one head over another isn’t possible either.

However, for those that argue for inclines “filling in” the upper chest: There is another muscle that lies behind the pectoralis major (chest) called the pectoralis minor. The pec minor is a small muscle located underneath the pec major near the shoulder. It is responsible for moving the shoulder forwards; coincidentally, this muscle is activated more in incline pressing movements than in flat pressing movements. If you do have an “upper chest” that can be selectively targeted by certain exercises, the pec minor is it.

The same goes for any body parts that perform the same anatomical function—the heads of the bicep, for example. Remember, the shape of a muscle is determined by genetics and there is no way you can train it for a different shape.

http://www.wannabebig.com/article.php?articleid=70
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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