"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How did I lose a girl to an AFC?

CherryBreaker

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I wrote a while back discussing how the freak did I lose a girl to some chump and after I kicked her arse to the curb, she turned around and married him.

Well, I just found out he's basically giving her money and material things which makes me happier not to have ended up with a golddigger. He may have her now but within a year when the green dries up and she makes him broke, she'll come crawling back to me. For some reason, all of my exes have came back to me to try and hook up again. Don't get me wrong, I'm pretty well off (make over $100k a year) but I'll be damn to give any women any of my share unless she proves herself worthy.

Another girl I dated like 5 years ago tried to hunt me down by talking to my parents and getting my contact info. We only dated for a few months and she dumped, lied, and cheated on my and now wants to start something up again. Jesus Christ, you give these girls an opportunity to be with you and they dump you only to come back later on and try to hook back with you again. This is not the first time its happened, its happened to all of my exes. Freaking girls need to get a grip on what they want. I think that's why we men are superior.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BackToTheMack

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Originally posted by CherryBreaker
I wrote a while back discussing how the freak did I lose a girl to some chump and after I kicked her arse to the curb, she turned around and married him.

Well, I just found out he's basically giving her money and material things which makes me happier not to have ended up with a golddigger. He may have her now but within a year when the green dries up and she makes him broke, she'll come crawling back to me. For some reason, all of my exes have came back to me to try and hook up again. Don't get me wrong, I'm pretty well off (make over $100k a year) but I'll be damn to give any women any of my share unless she proves herself worthy.

Another girl I dated like 5 years ago tried to hunt me down by talking to my parents and getting my contact info. We only dated for a few months and she dumped, lied, and cheated on my and now wants to start something up again. Jesus Christ, you give these girls an opportunity to be with you and they dump you only to come back later on and try to hook back with you again. This is not the first time its happened, its happened to all of my exes. Freaking girls need to get a grip on what they want. I think that's why we men are superior.
100k a year ummmmm yeh im a girl i love you! send me money and i will fly over to your country to be with you.
 
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