"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How DATING Sites Make Their Money

COD

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One of the biggest perceived downsides to seducing women online is the cost. In reality it's pretty damn cheap if you get a ton of chics chasing you down for a date. There are basically 4 scams..........errr ways paid for dating sites generate income.........

ADVERTISING: they have a few banner advertisements that appear on the side, in the middle of your matches, or the annoying pop-up ad, which can appear while you are searching or when you exit out from their site. Sometimes they attach cookies to your surfing and you see their pop-up ad, it follows you. Their goal is to try to entice you, with the ever so popular pay per click money maker or worse, get you to purchase whatever it is the ad selling.

COUNTERMEASURE-have a pop-up blocker, delete your cookies, clear out your cache, etc.

RENEWALS-At one time, this was their main source of income. Basically they send you reminder emails when you are coming close to the end of your membership. It’s a limited timed offer, act now and save 40% kinda marketing trick. If you choose NOT to renew at that time, they often send you lower rates if you have not renewed in say a month, 6 months, a year, etc Most of them have an automatic renewal feature that RE-CHARGES you when your membership expires…..and this rakes in the money.


COUNTERMEASURE
-Look for the site-map and navigate to the AUTO-RENEW feature and UNCHECK that box to avoid being billed for another month/year.

NEW MEMBERSHIPS-lots of people join the site after viewing their commercial, hearing their ad on the radio, etc. Their BIGGEST money making tactic is getting non-active members to sign up and or re-renew. They do this by displaying numerous so called “matches”. :cuss: Here’s the flaw in that; lets say you are a paid for member and you see a person you would like to talk to but only this person is NOT an active member. You send them an email, they can’t respond, UNLESS they signup with a credit card. The sites are fully aware of this fact, so they OFTEN THROW IN NUMEROUS non-active members in hopes to gain new income. They don’t make any new money by sending you other active matches.


COUNTERMEASURE
-view when was the last time they have been online looking, if it’s any longer than a few weeks, odds are they ain’t an active member. So skip these people when emailing. Look for “online now” profiles

4) EXTRA ADD ONS: Dating web-sites offer special features enhancements for a few more dollars in order for you to reap more replies…..for serious members. Examples (Net chat, highlights, Bold print, featured member spotlight, virtual voicemail box, etc.

FREE SITES-are basically generating money by running banner ads, pop-ups, etc in hopes you click an ad. They also participate in email harvesting, and information accumulating, then sell that info to a third party. Some offer enhanced features for a nominal fee, again for serious, sincere members.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Warrior74

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How does this site make it's money? haha.

I love the fact that at the end of your post they have and ad to earn your internet marketing certificate at USF. Awesome.
 

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This is why Plenty of Fish is worthwhile for a side thing. Who wants to pay for the nonsense?
 
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