How children effect things

[AlphaGhost]

I've decided marriage isn't for me, but I'm a firm believer in being their for my child, and would like for it to be with both parents...

reading online and from what I see, it seems men who fall into my category usually just sacrafice themselves just to keep the family together, cause it so much easier to bend then it is to stand straight.

for those of you with kids born outside of marriage, how do you make things work? are you still with the mother now? how often do you see your child? if you pay child support those that cause some sort of resentment??

I'm concerned cuz my lady is currently 3 months, and I would like to be with her forever with this child, but I know things may change...

 

[goundra]

u r an idiot for not getting a vasectomy, or at the very least, WATCHING them inject her with birth control, every 90 days or whatever time period is covered by such shots.

 

[AlphaGhost]

u r an idiot for not getting a vasectomy, or at the very least, WATCHING them inject her with birth control, every 90 days or whatever time period is covered by such shots.

Thanks for response that had nothing to do with what I asked.
Why are you in this section, I posted it in mature man for this exact reason.

 

[Warrior74]

Let me tell you. If she has your kid and you're together, at some point she's going to be interested in marriage. It will be an issue. Expect it. Decide now. Act now. If you know you don't want to marry this chic, I hope she already knows. Doesn't matter, she will expect a baby to change your mind and she will resent you if it doesn't and it will be a problem. If you can dodge this problem, you found a rare gem.

How do I know, experience. Didn't find a rare gem, only have met 1 person who has.