"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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how can i be alpha at this party im going too?

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this is my first real party ever and im 18 i got invest just before and its tonight. im sweating and going toilet heaps from nerves. i dont know what to do i am going late when everyone is already there so they settled when i arrive lonewolf. should i just grab a beer quickly and go lean against the corner and watch? is that the mystery method just wear sunglasses and sit alone and when people come to you neg hit them?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yeah definately hit up the people you know, then keep your eyes open for girls looking at you. Body language is pretty important here so if you act nervous or uncomfortable girls may lose interest. If you are too nervous to leave the people you know just drink more, haha, it always works. Actually thats exactly what I'm planning on doing tonight, good luck man.
But seriously, take a few minutes with the people you know and get a "feel" of the atmosphere. Who knows there may be some drinking games going on which you may participate in and become a part of the party and meet a lot of people. First parties are nerve recking but you will have fun, drink up!
 
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spesmilitis said:
no, go talk to people. People you know first.
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He's right. Don't be a wallflower. Look important, add to conversations (don't butt in or try to BS about stuff you don't know), and be confident. Being funny in a non-goofy way helps.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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