How can I be a mean ***hole and still keep the girl!

[thetachisle]

I noticed being rude and disrespectful to a girl works sometimes, I need to know what things I can say and or do to manipulate the girl into doing things for me and have her sticking around. Things that will hit those emotional buttons and what are some of your favorite things to do in these situations. To have her frustrated and scared of losing me and also what things I can do to her to have her think about me for a long time, and come back to me at some point in the future.

 

[Crazystarf]

If your girl has a lot of interest towards you (and you are in a relationship), gradually show affection for her if she does things that make you happy. "Punish" her swiftly if she disrespects you however (this could be doing things like nc, ignoring, etc).

I know this is from heartiste, but it still stands.

 

[JoeMarron]

Sprinkle in a dash of beta every now and then. Its fked up and you should feel bad for doing it but whatever works for you lol

 

[saturnalia]

I noticed being rude and disrespectful to a girl works sometimes, I need to know what things I can say and or do to manipulate the girl into doing things for me and have her sticking around. Things that will hit those emotional buttons and what are some of your favorite things to do in these situations. To have her frustrated and scared of losing me and also what things I can do to her to have her think about me for a long time, and come back to me at some point in the future.

all that you have to do is look good than you can be as mean and sexual as you want to

proof

click on it, than click on zoom the image

http://i.imgur.com/6yJjL.jpg

 

[PlayHer Man]

Stop worrying about "keeping the girl" in the first place.

As long as you fear losing her, you will be her slave. Its really that simple.

 

[Virgil]

Only guys I've ever see get away with ******* tendencies were good looking.

WHY?

Because girls are "physically attracted" to them and will therefore rationalise or defend it due to. Their "feelings for them" which is just chemical reactions caused by sexual arousal.

Without good looks you can't go around being an ******* because The girl you're being a **** to doesn't have any physical attraction to you so you're therefore are JUST A ****ING **** TO HER.

 

[thetachisle]

She is constantly apologizing for anything she says, which in turns makes me feel pitted almost. She says I am mean, and horrible and I feel like i am hurting you. But, I brush this off and let her know what she says doesn't not affect me emotionally even if it does, I dont tell her this.

Because I want to stay in power and dominate. She might be trying to make me feel bad or something.

An example is, I kept playing with her on a physical level and at one point she called me a "f'ing tease," now I heard this and so I completed her ORGASM for her through fingering her at the time. Now, she stated, "that she called me a "farking tease," because in her past relationship the guy called her a "f'ing tease," and she gave into sex with him when she didn't want to at the time until she got called a tease and to prove it she had sex. Now, I need the cold hard nitty gritty tactics and methods sort of similar to what this guy in her past relationship did to her.

 

[VladPatton]

Stop worrying about "keeping the girl" in the first place.

As long as you fear losing her, you will be her slave. Its really that simple.

This ↑↑↑↑↑↑↑↑↑↑↑↑↑. So, so true.

 

[joe henny]

I noticed being rude and disrespectful to a girl works sometimes, I need to know what things I can say and or do to manipulate the girl into doing things for me and have her sticking around. Things that will hit those emotional buttons and what are some of your favorite things to do in these situations. To have her frustrated and scared of losing me and also what things I can do to her to have her think about me for a long time, and come back to me at some point in the future.

Not trying to be a ****, but I mean this in the most brutally honest way.

You just sound like a little immature kid who needs to grow up.

Why would you want to purposely cause pain to a woman who has done nothing to you out of fear of losing her? That sounds like one of those crazy guys who beats on his wife.

A "Don Juan", "Player", "Womanizer", or whatever the hell you guys call it now a days realizes tactics like this are like venom. You only need one strike to seriously injure or kill.

You asking for ways to "scare" her in to staying really just makes it look like an insecurity on your part. That's what happens with women and people, not all are meant to be in your life forever.

Chill out, enjoy life, and talk to more women.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Not trying to be a ****, but I mean this in the most brutally honest way.

You just sound like a little immature kid who needs to grow up.

Why would you want to purposely cause pain to a woman who has done nothing to you out of fear of losing her? That sounds like one of those crazy guys who beats on his wife.

A "Don Juan", "Player", "Womanizer", or whatever the hell you guys call it now a days realizes tactics like this are like venom. You only need one strike to seriously injure or kill.

You asking for ways to "scare" her in to staying really just makes it look like an insecurity on your part. That's what happens with women and people, not all are meant to be in your life forever.

Chill out, enjoy life, and talk to more women.

Take your "girl-power" Dr. Phil crap somewhere else faggot. This site is called "SoSuave" not "Captain Save-a-hoe".

Here we discuss how to make life better for MEN.. not women.

Go to LoveShack if you want to be a white knight.

 

[Trailboss]

Just beat her in the head and face if she even looks like she is *thinking* about leaving you....that's what all the wussies do!

 

[bukowski_merit]

I noticed being rude and disrespectful to a girl works sometimes, I need to know what things I can say and or do to manipulate the girl into doing things for me and have her sticking around. Things that will hit those emotional buttons and what are some of your favorite things to do in these situations. To have her frustrated and scared of losing me and also what things I can do to her to have her think about me for a long time, and come back to me at some point in the future.

The only type of woman you need to treat like an @sshole is a woman who expects to be treated that way.

To people saying that it's bad to do things like this - - - you must understand that people enjoy emotions. Women especially....

Women are comfortable being uncomfortable a lot more than men do...

The only real way to have a woman scared of losing you is to really be willing to walk at any moment. It'll carry over into your actions.

If your girl has a lot of interest towards you (and you are in a relationship), gradually show affection for her if she does things that make you happy. "Punish" her swiftly if she disrespects you however (this could be doing things like nc, ignoring, etc).

I know this is from heartiste, but it still stands.

Please don't credit heartiste with something that's been common knowledge for at least 10 years now...

 

[joe henny]

Take your "girl-power" Dr. Phil crap somewhere else faggot. This site is called "SoSuave" not "Captain Save-a-hoe".

Here we discuss how to make life better for MEN.. not women.

Go to LoveShack if you want to be a white knight.

Calm down, I was actually agreeing with what you said. The whole premise of my argument was, "Why jump through all these hoops to try and gain something/control one woman". This ideology the op is expousing makes him come off as the, "White-Knight". It would be more "alpha" or "don juan" to not be so, enthralled with one woman when there are billions to choose from.