How bad do you want this? How bad do you want to be THAT guy?

[Listen_to_Olly]

A lot of guys come to sites like So Suave in order to be that DJ but the truth is, how bad do you want this?

Are you willing to chase that lifestyle even when a lot of people on here are against you chasing it?

What if they tell you it's "not worth it" or "you should focus on other important stuff in life"?

Are you willing to keep going?

It's all about the sacrifices and knowing which ones to make in life in order to be that guy who gets hot girls and has beautiful women in his life.

Are you willing to deal with the guilt trips that others throw at you such as "there is more to life than pu$$y" and keep on going?

Are you willing to keep going and pursuing this goal despite all that?

Just how far will you go to be THAT guy?

Because the truth is, it is comfortable NOT being that guy. I said it, it is actually better for your quality of life to not be that guy that has hot women in his life. Settle for the 5s and 6s, they won't cause you any issues.

Having hot girls in your life means a lot of other men will envy you and want to take you out.

Having hot girls in your life means society will target you out of envy.

STILL want that life?

You there, Mr Ethnic Guy, how bad do you want that hot blonde?

Are you willing to go for her even when society is calling you a self-hater, sell out, and constantly telling you "whats wrong with your own women"?

Are you willing to go for her when your own ethnic brothers are trying their best to stop you from going for her?

Are you still going to go for her knowing that as soon as you get her, most men in society will see you as a target and your life will become more difficult?

STILL want that hot blonde?

Because the reality of the whole situation is, your life would be better if you didn't get hot girls.

Getting hot girls requires serious effort.

It requires dealing with a lot of drama and some serious envy.

It requires taking care of logistics and where you live.

It requires paying attention to location.

It requires fitting in to a degree because hot girls don't want low status losers.

It requires being a quality guy yourself which requires a lot of effort.

The reality is, your life is better off not being any of that.

Sit on the couch, eat cheetos, and binge watch TV.

Play videogames all day and socialize with other neckbeards that do.

It is so comfortable, so easy, and so much less painful.

 

[BeExcellent]

When you make the wise choices in life & expend effort efficiently you increase your options.

It is better to have more options than less.

This applies to dating prospects, career prospects, and health status.

Those who give up are quitters who remove themselves from contention.

Good. More opportunity and less competition for those willing to do what is required to "make it", however one defines that term.

At least you are honest. If it's too hard, find a 5 and call it good. Some aspire to more.

Hot women who are sought after & who make the effort to take care of themselves are not going to settle for ungroomed sloppy couch surfers. No, that will not happen.

 

[Urbanyst]

I'm not sexually attracted to anything below a 7. Can't get hard. Or I have to think about someone else, which cases a lot of strain.

But I care a lot more about MONEY than I care about women anyway. I'll always go for the hottest girl possible. If she leaves, cheats or gets taken away by another douche.. I still have my MONEY which is what really matters.

 

[Trump]

Are you willing to chase that lifestyle even when a lot of people on here are against you chasing it?

What if they tell you it's "not worth it" or "you should focus on other important stuff in life"?

Just how far will you go to be THAT guy?

Because the truth is, it is comfortable NOT being that guy.

I love posts where the OP's come in with some imposed statements, and then come to some mind blowing conclusions based on those imposed statements.

Bro you are completely confusing the issues. We have never said "chase that lifestyle." We have never said be "that guy." We have never it is "comfortable not being that guy." All we have ever said is do what's best for you at all times. We have said don't take any BS from women because they will use it against you. We have said look after yourself; emotionally, financially, mentally, and physically because no one cares you are dead or alive. We have said it may not be best to emotionally commit to ONE women for the rest of your life. We have offer something of value to society other than being able to have sex with a good looking girl. We have said exercise, keep your mind and body sharp at all times. We have said dress well, be liked, be respectful, be thoughtful, be knowledgable, be valuable.

But we have never said go and "chase that lifestyle." That goes against everything we have taught.

 

[Trainwreck]

I pretty much accepted this during my first job out of college. To be that guy women liked, I would've had to sacrifice my career in order to obtain that identity or be born in to some rich family where money and connections can negate the consequences of my bad decisions.