"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Good article, Howiestern.

I've copied the best pullquotes that struck a chord with me:

We venerate them as living symbols of power, freedom, and transcendence.

Successful leaders are fearless. They face problems head on.

Vision is a successful leadership characteristic.

Everyone must have a vision that guides and leads his team towards the organization’s or societal goals. The vision must be big and focused.

Great leaders are problem solvers. They don’t complain like the pigeons do. They love to take challenges as the eagle does when the storm comes.

They never stop giving challenges but never give-up empowering and directing.

...the eagle retreats to a mountaintop and over a five month period goes through a metamorphosis. It knocks off its own beak by banging it against a rock, plucks out its talons and then feathers.

Great leaders are the ones that always do “checks and balances” of their personal and professional lives and make an effort to learn new things every day.
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Isn't this very much the metamorphosis of the DJ? Plucking the feathers of conditioning that is holding us back from our true potential?
 
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Yes, I thought it paralleled quite nicely!
 
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