"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hotness = Crazy????? Need your thoughts...

dutchmaster

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Johnny Alias said:
Lol. Believe me Dutch each of the girls I mention up there was FUN. Exciting, sexy, and HOT.

They were also ALL batsh1t crazy. Like it or not some of us on here are looking for something long term. These are the kind of gals that bankrupt you, cheat on you, and, oh how exciting, land your ass in jail!

They're not stable. They typically are self-absorbed to the point where they will emotionally or physically abuse you after the honeymoon phase is over or you are not obeying their every command like a little b****.

Don't start the talk of being an alpha male and how that will get their crap in line. You're VERY young and obviously haven't run into many of these. I'm talking about ANIMALS that cannot be reasoned or bargained with... I hope you don't run into any EVER, but, when you do... remember to look up Cluster B's. Might save your life.
Fair enough, but come on, that's a very bold statement to say that literally every single hot girl is crazy.. At least not any crazier than the average woman.

I may be wrong but I know a few guys in LTRs with hot girls (8+) where the girls seem normal. Maybe I'm still too young so these women haven't had a chance to lose their minds yet.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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