"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hot or cold bath after exercise.

Bloke

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Which do you think is best ? I hear conflicting advice.

May be wrong, but I figure cold water would reduce swelling for niggling injuries etc. And hot for muscle recovery.

Which is best ?

Exercise includes pushups, situps, pullups, 5km run & swimming if that helps.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Cold will shunt blood away from your extremities into your core. In a nutshell this will essentially slow all chemical processes that are necessary for muscle repair and recovery.

If you have an inflammatory injury, then ice or cold water will reduce swelling and inflammation in the area.

Sounds like you are just doing cardio and calisthenics, so I would just take a cool shower afterward and then relax. Avoid cold or hot temps; let your body temp equilibrate on it's own. If you have nagging soreness or joint inflammation then ice it locally.
 

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Espi said:
Actually, both will work wonders. Submerge yoursefl in cold water for a few minutes; then immediately run yourself a hot shower.

Doing this supposedly dialates the blood vessels, which means you're going to feel invigorated. It's not for the light of heart, but I've done this several times, and it's helped minimize recovery time.
What about a steam room. Dilates your blood vessels alot I presume and rids your body of toxins/waste by sweating.
 
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