"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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hot Girl iv been seeing, doesnt want BF

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k so this chick is prob one of the hottest girls on campus , she has guys following her around everywhere no joke, iv been seeing her for a bout a month now, v-day comes, i give her a gift, then we make out and after i ask her basically if she wants to be more serious, like the whole gf thing, she says she's to busy and doesnt want a bf right now, but she says after that she felt so bad and that she likes me alot, , so were still seeing each other , any tips on how to get her to chase after me more n not the other way around which it has flipped now,she basically has all the power
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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john_1234

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reduce the amount of attention you're giving her and start hitting up other girls. you shouldn't have brought the issue of "girlfriend/boyfriend" up. always let the girl do it first.
 

tmpgstx

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She likes you but wants to keep her options open apparently. If she liked you as boyfriend material she would no doubt explore that. I don't care how busy someone is, time can always be allocated.

I wouldn't get attached to her.
 

dikster

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hav a life. Let her see you in the company of other people having fun, so when she realizes that you're a prize that she can't afford to lose, the balance goes back to your favor.
 
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