"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Suspens

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This girl was waiting on a bus stop I noticed her and decided to make some eye contact I stared at her and after a few seconds she stared back what does it mean hulp
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You're 28 and asking this question? :crackup:

Don't waste your time. It doesn't matter since you didn't make a move. The only women in life who matter are family members and women you're f*cking. If you didn't make a move.. then that woman might as well have never existed.

Focus your energy on women you can still f*ck. Not women you will never see again.
 

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I agree, at 28 you should know the answer to this. But anyway, if you make eye contact with a girl and she holds eye contact with you then that's your invitation to at least strike up a convo. If she thought you were hideous or had no interest in talking to you she would avert her gaze, stare at her phone, look at her watch, etc.
 

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What made me wonder was the fact that she said bye in a high pitched alien-like tone while greeting the next guy with low-pitched death metal voice Does it mean she found the other guy more attractive I didn't ****ing say a word anyway, why should she say bye
 

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I really don't get it suspens, usually you make pretty good posts but every once in a while you just turn into a hater for a few posts. You should really get a grip on yourself man.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Suspens said:
This girl was waiting on a bus stop I noticed her and decided to make some eye contact I stared at her and after a few seconds she stared back what does it mean hulp
When a girl is interested she will make eye contact, then hold eye contact, and then smile. You then have 3 seconds to say something (anything) and she will be willing to talk to you. That's called buying signals and you should never approach a girl without receiving them. If you hesitate, she will think you are weak.
 

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dk1990S111 said:
I really don't get it suspens, usually you make pretty good posts but every once in a while you just turn into a hater for a few posts. You should really get a grip on yourself man.
Agreed.

Suspens, please stop acting like you don't know anything.
 
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