"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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One thing I've noticed recently is that when I start talking to girls in two sets, I'll notice usually, the friend of the girl I'm gaming is usually looking at me with complete hostility.

For example, on Friday, I'm walking down the street and this very hot brunette starts talking to me when I'm passing by her.
girl: "do you have any change?"
me: surprised she is talking to me. "No, sorry." I say shrugging my shoulders.

We start to get to talking, but I'm running very late to meet my friends, so I tell her: "I'm on my way to bar y right now."

girl: "oh really? that's where we're going!"

The thing is, the real reason I walked off was because of the hot brunette's girlfriend. Actually the girlfriend is very hot too, although kinda short. The girlfriend is giving me the most evil eye! Like she hates me.

I try to joke around with the short hot girl. "Damm girl, what's wrong with you?! You better stop staring at me like that! ha ha!"

She still stares at me with this evil stare. How do you defuse girls who are being b1tchy for no reason? I was completely friendly, so I don't understand the source of her hostility.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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glare back, slowly break into a smirk, then say "excuse me" and walk right past her.

ADDMAN-tested, mother-approved.
 
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She's just jealous of her friend getting your attention. I'm almost positive that right after you left, they giggled about how studly you were, and the friend was telling the girl about how you were checking her out.
 
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yeah, she's missing the attention that her friend is getting. when she gives you the evil eye, drop to your knees and look at her and say "OH NO!! NOT THE DEATH STARE".... it will make her laugh and you'll seem like a pretty cool guy.
 
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Talk to both equally and let them compete for your attention even if a specific one is your real target.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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lol, that makes sense now. I was talking to these two girls once, a blonde and brunette. I tried so hard talking to both girls at once. If i talked to one exclusively for more than a few seconds, the other one would start looking away and pouting, so I had to give her some more attention. Then I'd have to return my attention to the first girl, and the cycle would start all over again.

I think I really need a wingman. but I think you're right, neither girl wants to feel left out.

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She just feels left out, smile at her like she's next:)
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God, the guys who say play it off or make a joke of it are giving some kung-fu retarded advice, man.

In sets you have to game them ALL... otherwise you'll get that type of jealous/protective response from the friends. Basic Mystery Method.
 
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