"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hooking up with girls in your class

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I make friends with girls easily. But that's it, never get any further than that. There are plenty of hot chicks in my class, and obviously, I have their digits already.

So, any advice on how to deal with the situation?

For reference, there are at least 2 success stories from that very class, one couple being two of my best friends, being on holiday in Finland for the time being, and I don't think they're sightseeing exactly (ever been in a Finnish sauna?) Yikes I wish I was that guy! :woo:

So, I know it can be done, how is it done? :confused:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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golden rule of high school dating... 1 step forward 2 steps back... show them confidence when you talk to them... but dont act like your on their every move... act like your busy and you have stuff to do because YOU are a man... confidence is key though... if you havent already talked to them...cold approach them... use alittle subtle kino... (you dont need to close with the number but it is helpfull in showing them your interested) then be done with them till the next day.. its all about mystery... 1 step forward 2 steps back
 

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just play tha ****y and funny **** on them and man it works! smiling and eye contact is good too. trust me, once u get there e-mail its soo much easier
 

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wait, forward, back back. forward back back. forward back back. forward back back. forward back back. forward back back. forward back back. forward back back. forward back back.

That puts you in the hole....-_- :confused:

lola :D
 

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I have also when sitting in lunch or where ever talking to them and another hotter girl walks by say something to the one you like, "Look at that ass" not this is going to make the one you like jealous and wanting you more.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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steroidsrule

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docs right on that... you can look cause your a ****in man but you dont gotta say anything... your actions are stronger than words
 

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your actions are stronger than words

You win.

The best thing I've ever done is when talking to a girl at a party, I kept getting "distracted". She was practically competing for my attention all night, because my eyes were going EVERYWHERE, but i still maintained converstation with her.

Good times.
 

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Don't worry, it's a common problem. When I used to be a super AFC and asking girls out at school, getting them alone was a big problem. Looking back, it shouldn't have been.

A little whisper in the ear "Can I talk to you alone for a moment?" and a smile will work wonders. The breath on her ear will turn her on, and also, it shows you have the balls to actually talk to her and be mature about it.

Good luck.
 

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I hooked up with a girl from my class last night.

I was just having a lot of fun in the disco then I saw her and some friends of her on the dance flor.

Me and my pal went to them started dancing with them more and more eroticaly and that was it...I then quickly got away.

We meet later on talked a little, holded hands and then finaly we kissed.

I got away again and when we meet later we maked out.

It is as simle as that.

(I also got a number from another girl, that has to be a good night :))
 
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