Hooking up with girls at raves

[grimsavage]

Last night i went to this event at club cinema called maydaze it was my 3rd rave and it was fun, but i didnt hook up with or talked to any cute girls i did get to grind with a couple of girls tho. It was also my friends first rave and i told him how he would go about grinding with girls and stuff (just go behind em and grab theyre hips, later at the end of the night he ends up hooking up with 3 different girls which def makes me feel like ****. Actually most of my friends either hooked up with a girl or two and a few where able to get the girls numbers to hangout after the rave was over.

WTF am i doing wrong im black btw and all my friends are white is this it? or maybe its because im not built like my friends (strength wise). My approach to grind with girls was go up to em and tap them on the shoulder asking if they wanted to dance or id just get behind em and grab on theyre hips but out of 20 tries i only danced with 4 girls and sometimes when theyrd be groups of girls id start grinding with a girl and i guess she'd have her friend look at me and give her this wierd look and then she'd stop grinding with me even at my first 2 raves i danced with a lot more girls. when i asked my friend after the rave how he got with those 3 girls he said by grabbing on her hips and then he said "do that think with there neck" maybe kissing on theyre neck or something.

But what should i do to be dancing with more girls and hooking up with at least one. what are good things to say when i first see them in the crowd for girls to be like oh hes cute ill def dance or hookup with him. I know me being black doesnt help so much but i have seen other black raver guys get play, tho not many.

What kinda outfit is good to wear my friends just go without a shirt and some shorts and glasses i think imma start doing this should i stop with the candy or do girls like that?

I know this sounds wrong because raves are about the music, the moment, dancing and having a good night but **** some of the girls at events are so beautiful

PLS help me

 

[LiveFreeX]

Man I used to party like there was no tommorow.. sweet raves all trance and happy hardcore. The way to get social value at raves is to go all decked out in Rave Gear, as fvcking flamboyant as possible.

I used to wear a fun fur vest, fun fur pants, skater shoes (good for dancing), glow in the dark necklaces, arms covered in multi-coloured beads, white gloves (original blue liquid crew), black or white baseball hat, no logos...or just some saying or some **** on the top like "NO FEAR!". Sometimes I went with glow in the dark black shirts and laser gloves.... yes they sell lazer gloves.

Second, learn how to dance... grinding is for retards and this is why so many black guys get a bad rep at white raves. Raves are NOT for grinding, you look like a hip hopping rapstar wannabe loser. The music has several styles that lend themselves quite nicely to offshoots of popping. Seriously guy, people go to raves to show off their dancing skills, not to grind some sweaty pvssy. You want to throw down at raves you gotta know how to dance. My friend and I would usually walk on in hoodies and baggy pants... white gloves were the only thing showing and white sneakers, black hats... we would walk on and in like we owned the floor and nobody should be there but us. Then we would throw down and walk off without speaking to anyone. Managers would always (clubs & raves) come and get us to perform on stage and what not and later on women would come at us like flies to sh1t. The idea is not to talk to women but get women to talk to you. They will try to interrupt you on the dancefloor, blow them off, its your place and your time in the spotlight, b1tches should not interfere with your game. Later on they will be dying to talk to you and the super hot ones will have seen you blow off all the girls before them that tried to rub up against you while you were doing your thing. They will try to.

Now, I'm married and I dance purely for fun and profit. When I go to the dance club usually all eyes are on me... its a great feeling. Women come up and try and score with me but my wife is always in the crowd so it makes her proud and pretty jealous.
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These are dances appropriate for raves... grinding... thats for ghetto trash.

This

http://v.youku.com/v_show/id_XMjMxMTYwNTk2.html

and

this

http://v.youku.com/v_show/id_XMTYxOTM1Nzgw.html

ELECTRO (Your generation)

http://v.youku.com/v_show/id_XMzM4NTI2NTI4.html
http://v.youku.com/v_show/id_XNDA3NjQzODc2.html
http://v.youku.com/v_show/id_XMzY1NzQ4NjI0.html (Mexican Electro)

SHUFFLE (Your Gen)
http://v.youku.com/v_show/id_XNTU4MjI2MTk2.html
http://v.youku.com/v_show/id_XMjMxMTYxMDgw.html

This is Candy Kid style

http://images.search.yahoo.com/imag...k&sigi=11nks2f6n&.crumb=YnlRb3Ho335&fr=cb-max


NOTHING but NOTHING impresses a girl more than a guy who can dance... you want to moisten 1000 panties all at once, be the guy on the dancefloor, everyone and their mother is staring at.

http://v.youku.com/v_show/id_XMjkyNjkyMA==.html

Been there done that.

Go Candy, the more wild you get, the more approachable you are. Women love that, dress up all candy, wicked ass dance style but an arrogant and self assured attitude... also you are a challenge when you won't approach or talk to them. Women love the smell of sweat, turn on or something... when you dance you sweat buckets.

http://v.youku.com/v_show/id_XNTEzMzA3ODIw.html

Fvck, I wish I was young again... I work 7 days a week... need to take some time off to start dancing again. Starting tommorow.