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Hooked up with the friend of a girl who I like

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Here is the story, a couple weeks ago I ran into this freshman girl (Lauren) who I had talked to on one other occasion. We hit it off, and she was really into me. I ended up having sex with her that night, we talked a couple times after that, but I never asked her out because I had an extremely busy couple of weeks.

Now, last weekend I got drunk and ended up hooking up with another girl who happens to be friends with Lauren. I have a feeling that she found out I hooked up with her friend because she didnt answer my call this weekend, and never responded to my text messages (I just sent her a generic one asking what she was up to).

Now, I actually really like Lauren and wouldnt mind starting something with her. She left her earrings in my room, so I figure I can stop by her room to drop them off and talk to her then. Should I just ask her out on a date and see what she says? Or anyone else have any tactics I can use to remedy the situation?

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You should have thought about how much you liked Lauren before you slept around...

Now she will know you are just after sex and that you "get around". If I were you I would just leave her a voicemail saying that she left her earrings at your place;

"Hey this is (your name),I just want to let you know you let your earrings at my place. Call me if you want them back."
 
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blinkwatt said:
You should have thought about how much you liked Lauren before you slept around...

Now she will know you are just after sex and that you "get around". If I were you I would just leave her a voicemail saying that she left her earrings at your place;

"Hey this is (your name),I just want to let you know you let your earrings at my place. Call me if you want them back."
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Thanks for the advice, you are right. I need to quit drinking so much at parties so I can maintain self control. Kinda sad its taken me 3 years of college to relize this.
 
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cefiro said:
Kinda sad its taken me 3 years of college to relize this.
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Your on the rigth path! Now it's up to you to learn from your mistakes.
 
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