"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Homecoming's Next Week - Should I learn how to dance?

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ElStud

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Well I've never been to homecoming before and I figure, what the f*ck it's my senior year and it's the last chance I'll have to go, so I'm going. But I wonder, is knowing how to dance really that important? Usually when I'm at dances I just do my own thing and improvise. And if knowing how to dance is important, are there any sites or videos I could look at to learn?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Every guy needs to know how to dance.

YES! Yes, for the love of Don Juan you must learn how to dance. The fact that I was the sole guy at my homecoming (and later prom) that actually knew how to dance helped me get so many girls. I had a blast just because I took a couple lessons.

What kind of dance really depends on the setting. If your school is doing a big traditionalist theme, then go with the music and learn Salsa (You can really adjust that to do anything) and more classical dances.
If it's just a standard dance with stuff like hip hop and the occasional slow dance, then watch Hitch and learn the two step. Good Luck!
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Thorns said:
YES! Yes, for the love of Don Juan you must learn how to dance. The fact that I was the sole guy at my homecoming (and later prom) that actually knew how to dance helped me get so many girls. I had a blast just because I took a couple lessons.

What kind of dance really depends on the setting. If your school is doing a big traditionalist theme, then go with the music and learn Salsa (You can really adjust that to do anything) and more classical dances.
If it's just a standard dance with stuff like hip hop and the occasional slow dance, then watch Hitch and learn the two step. Good Luck!
-T
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Yeah, it's just gonna be like typical hip hop, pop and rock stuff. Although anyway I could learn for free? I really don't have the time or money to get that movie.
 
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I graduated in 2006 and I still have girls asking me to go with them. I even get to have my pick of which one I want.i never really realized that until now.
 
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