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Homecoming's Next Week - Should I learn how to dance?

ElStud

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Well I've never been to homecoming before and I figure, what the f*ck it's my senior year and it's the last chance I'll have to go, so I'm going. But I wonder, is knowing how to dance really that important? Usually when I'm at dances I just do my own thing and improvise. And if knowing how to dance is important, are there any sites or videos I could look at to learn?
 

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Thorns

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Every guy needs to know how to dance.

YES! Yes, for the love of Don Juan you must learn how to dance. The fact that I was the sole guy at my homecoming (and later prom) that actually knew how to dance helped me get so many girls. I had a blast just because I took a couple lessons.

What kind of dance really depends on the setting. If your school is doing a big traditionalist theme, then go with the music and learn Salsa (You can really adjust that to do anything) and more classical dances.
If it's just a standard dance with stuff like hip hop and the occasional slow dance, then watch Hitch and learn the two step. Good Luck!
-T
 

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Thorns said:
YES! Yes, for the love of Don Juan you must learn how to dance. The fact that I was the sole guy at my homecoming (and later prom) that actually knew how to dance helped me get so many girls. I had a blast just because I took a couple lessons.

What kind of dance really depends on the setting. If your school is doing a big traditionalist theme, then go with the music and learn Salsa (You can really adjust that to do anything) and more classical dances.
If it's just a standard dance with stuff like hip hop and the occasional slow dance, then watch Hitch and learn the two step. Good Luck!
-T
Yeah, it's just gonna be like typical hip hop, pop and rock stuff. Although anyway I could learn for free? I really don't have the time or money to get that movie.
 

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I graduated in 2006 and I still have girls asking me to go with them. I even get to have my pick of which one I want.i never really realized that until now.
 
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