Holy crap, I'm a flaky chic.

[Warrior74]

Well I'm not a chic obviously.

I was reading another thread here about the medium is the message and about flakey behavior and I realized that this is exactly how I'm treating this girl. I'm only mildly interested (meaning that my penis is interested but that's about it). We've gone out twice on boring dinner dates. She refused to put out and now I'm flaking on meeting up with her. She keeps calling/texting, sometimes I answer, sometimes I don't. When I'm bored I talk to her. I'm surprised she keeps calling me. The last text I got from her said "I can't figure you out". Honestly, she's about the last thing on my mind until I'm horny, which is why I only text/talk to her in the morning or late at night.

She wants to go see Batman today. LOL Jakes on her. She hasn't seen the first two and doesn't really like superhero movies, why would I waste my money on taking her to see that? She can come over afterwards if she wants to see me that bad. I'm going with my friends.

 

[Greasy Pig]

Maintain the frame, mate.
If you're just after a fvck buddy, don't buy the whole fvcking relationship.

Maybe organise to meet her out somewhere you'll already be with your mates.
Ply her with booze, flirt like crazy and maybe she'll give it up in the hope it helps build your attraction for her.
If she still plays hard to get, I think your mission may be lost, which is fvcked.

I'm in a similar situation with this HB9. She doesn't drink much and I only meet up with her out on the town when I'm p1ssed.
She's showing a lot of IOIs but refuses to put out.
She says: "I don't want to kiss you when you're drunk"; and: "maybe you should ask me out to dinner instead"...
But she's a bit of a weirdo and the fact she doesn't get drunk is kind of concerning. Now trust me, she's a top shelf piece of arse, but she's insisting I buy the whole fvcking cow before I've tasted the cream and I don't want to do that....yet.
I'll just keep trying to corrupt her and hope she makes a bad decision one night.

 

[Warrior74]

Maintain the frame, mate.
If you're just after a fvck buddy, don't buy the whole fvcking relationship.

Maybe organise to meet her out somewhere you'll already be with your mates.
Ply her with booze, flirt like crazy and maybe she'll give it up in the hope it helps build your attraction for her.
If she still plays hard to get, I think your mission may be lost, which is fvcked.

I'm in a similar situation with this HB9. She doesn't drink much and I only meet up with her out on the town when I'm p1ssed.
She's showing a lot of IOIs but refuses to put out.
She says: "I don't want to kiss you when you're drunk"; and: "maybe you should ask me out to dinner instead"...
But she's a bit of a weirdo and the fact she doesn't get drunk is kind of concerning. Now trust me, she's a top shelf piece of arse, but she's insisting I buy the whole fvcking cow before I've tasted the cream and I don't want to do that....yet.
I'll just keep trying to corrupt her and hope she makes a bad decision one night.

She's nice but kinda boring. She's only a 6, but then again so am I and we are both parents. She's a church girl (I'm an atheist). She was mad that I was going to work this morning instead of church. She's trying to pull the whole good girl routine. I'm finding this a lot in 30+ baby mamas. She asked me what I wanted from her, a booty call, a relationship or just a friendship. I told her it depends on her and how she acts. She cried no fair. LOL.

Yah I've had plenty of cows and cream, I don't farm anymore so I don't plan on owning one.

 

[Who Dares Win]

I can relate, Im was doing the same exact thing with a girl I banged twice but doesnt stimulate me that much being her a 6.

I do exactly what you do, talking with her only when Im bored or couldnt find any better in the short term.
Once we casually met at the club and I kept spending my time and kissing an other girl (an other 6...what a luck eh) with no concern.

This is probably how the girls who behave like that to us feel, they somehow are not so much into us so they have no problem in having the same behaviour, except that they contact us when theyr are bored and need an ego fix instead of a easy lay.

 

[Warrior74]

Do unto others as you would have them do unto you

Thanks for stating the AFC motto. :rockon:

 

[Desdinova]

The DJ motto is to do what's best for you. If Warrior's best interest right now is to have a lay-only relationship, then that's his business.

Warrior, why don't you invite her over to watch Batman late at night? I can usually get a woman to put out when I've got a movie on for us to ignore.

I know this piece of ass doesn't seem like she's worth the effort, but you need to put in at least a little bit of effort if you want to get your c0ck wet. All you need is to set the scene, that's it. No game, no ****y/funny, no negs, just create the ideal environment for a lay and then boot her out afterwards. She'll come back for more.

The best FBs seem to be the ones you treat like garbage.

 

[Greasy Pig]

She'll come back for more.

The best FBs seem to be the ones you treat like garbage.

LOL, this is so fvcking true.

 

[Warrior74]

So the DJ motto is "If you cant beat em, join em." ?

You know, thinking about it. Yah, yah it is. Can't dress well, can't talk to chics, you're a fat slob, you have no game like the other guys? Heres how to join them. That's exactly what this place is.

Anyway, I broke it off with her last night. She said she was looking to settle down soon and I told her I didn't have time for anything serious. :yes:

 

[mrRuckus]

Do unto others as you would have them do unto you

I'd have them ridicule me for my failings so that I would be motivated to correct such failings.

Sorry fatties and single moms. I'm only doing what i would want to be done unto me. For my own good.