"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hmmm, how about this....?

~The_Chosen~

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Have a log-in/log-out time sheet, so we know whos been posting 1 or however hours ago. Most other forum sites have this.

And also, have a points chart, whoever has the most posts would be on this list as #1 and the list continues to #50, this shows who frequents the most here and could lead to how much they know about DJ and this forum.

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"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then is just not an act but a habit." - Aristotle
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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posts don't matter, the quality of the posts matter. Yet again, 1000 posts of fairly good advice and reading, even over a short period of time, is valuable.
 

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Originally posted by Odysseus:
posts don't matter, the quality of the posts matter. Yet again, 1000 posts of fairly good advice and reading, even over a short period of time, is valuable.
Yes I know that, if someone is caught spamming just to reach the top, moderators would know this and reset his voting counts.

Quality posts should only be counted, of course.


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