"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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well thee is a girl who is now mad at moe for \\\\\\\"ignoreing her\\\\\\\" today at the first day of school....i dont understand because:
1.she has boyfriend
2.everysingle time she saw me i said hi back or w/e..

but she is mad at me for ignoring her its like shes stupid and doesnt understand that when shes with her boyfriend 24/7 i cant stand there and have 5 hour converstaions with her...

my questio is

how do i not \\\\\\\"ignore her\\\\\\\" without getting too anoying...because i dont want to pull her away from her bf just because she says hi..but if i dont sit there and talk she gets mad at moe for ignoring her

ill go into more detail, she was on siitting with her boyfriend at lunch at the outside and she says hi and i wave and shes like why are you ignoring me and her face was turning red and she was like kept going on..she used to ride my buss i last year and it was prety much the funnest thing ever it was a blast everyday..se talk me almost every day on summer and i was anxoius to see her at schools starts and they split the buss ride in half sepretaeing us making both buss rides boring and now it pretty much sucks and when we talk it just isnt the same anymore..that why i dont treat her the same because what she tend to do is give me her full attention at one minute and just leave me standing there as she goes to another person without even saying goodbye or anything..it was differnt last year i guess because she couldnt get enoygh of me and whenever i showed up anywhere she wouldnt stop bothering me and wherever i was she could never keep her eyes of me but then again tahst before her bf came to school

im pretty sure i should just give up on her she expects me to give her my attention when she isnt even giving me hers and i think that realy quite ridicoulus..

an to make this even more complictaed everytime i walk by her she has to acknlodge me and if i dont say anything back i can tell shes getting mad...

another thing: she has a volleyball game and she wants me to go but in all honesty i dont want to go..and i promised her i would but how do i tell her withour hurting her feeling im not going>?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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this is classic attention wh*re behavior. you should read some of the other threads about this.
she shouldnt get offended when you dont wait hand and foot on her
you never ignored her but thats an excuse to get attention from you
she already has a boyfriend
 

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penkitten said:
this is classic attention wh*re behavior. you should read some of the other threads about this.
she shouldnt get offended when you dont wait hand and foot on her
you never ignored her but thats an excuse to get attention from you
she already has a boyfriend
owned!

fvck that *****, put her on the level she needs to be.
 
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