"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hit a two plate bench today

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Seemed like I was stuck at 200 for months.
I'm a beginner with about 1 year of proper training and nutrition.

Today was a rest day, I just went to the gym to stretch.

Warm up sets became working sets and I felt strong.

Things rarely go as planned. The other times I planned to hit a PR failed.

Supplements I used before the bench: beta alanine, creatine monohydrate, citrulline malate, caffeine, multivitamin, probiotic, fish oil.

Pre-workout meal: Rice and chicken+ protein shake

This is by no means anything to brag about but for a guy 300+ lbs over two years back in a huge 500 calorie deficit since, I gained strength and mass while losing over 100 lbs in fat.

Feel free to comment if you have any questions.

Current stats: 6'2 + 200 lbs + 17% body fat
Dark mate, congrats. Now stack on the W.

I'm no scientist or sports pro athlete. I found if I switch up my routines, I break past plateaus. For instance, 5x5 3×8-12 is the range I play in. I was aiming for a 4 plate squat BUT I started noticing soreness and stiff knees. I pulled back. It's simply not ideal nor functional. 5x5 was my route there.

See what you respond to and get there. Keep it up brother.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dark mate, congrats. Now stack on the W.

I'm no scientist or sports pro athlete. I found if I switch up my routines, I break past plateaus. For instance, 5x5 3×8-12 is the range I play in. I was aiming for a 4 plate squat BUT I started noticing soreness and stiff knees. I pulled back. It's simply not ideal nor functional. 5x5 was my route there.

See what you respond to and get there. Keep it up brother.
That’s too many reps for strength gains. All high rep does is make you sore and swole. Stick to the 1-3 range. The Myofibril hypertrophy is denser muscle tissue. It is more functional and more aesthetic.
 

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Dark mate, congrats. Now stack on the W.

I'm no scientist or sports pro athlete. I found if I switch up my routines, I break past plateaus. For instance, 5x5 3×8-12 is the range I play in. I was aiming for a 4 plate squat BUT I started noticing soreness and stiff knees. I pulled back. It's simply not ideal nor functional. 5x5 was my route there.

See what you respond to and get there. Keep it up brother.
That’s too many reps for strength gains. All high rep does is make you sore and swole. Stick to the 1-3 range. The Myofibril hypertrophy is denser muscle tissue. It is more functional and more aesthetic.
5x5 and 3x8-12 are both great routines.

1-3 specifically is too taxing for my CNS.

I'd say it's a great idea to do a 5x5 split twice a week and 3x-12 thrice a week along with two rest days for strength and hypertrophy gains.
 

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5x5 and 3x8-12 are both great routines.

1-3 specifically is too taxing for my CNS.

I'd say it's a great idea to do a 5x5 split twice a week and 3x-12 thrice a week along with two rest days for strength and hypertrophy gains.
5X5 is too much volume to build strength especially once graduated out of the novice phase. Also, there is no need to train strength & hypertrophy separately, as strength = hypertrophy (however hypertrophy =/= strength).
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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5x5 and 3x8-12 are both great routines.

1-3 specifically is too taxing for my CNS.

I'd say it's a great idea to do a 5x5 split twice a week and 3x-12 thrice a week along with two rest days for strength and hypertrophy gains.
Power lifting 1-3 reps 6 sets is effective BUT stupid high risk for serious injury.

I came through learning to bench from a old school power lifter. Tiny dude but decades of training. very successful business and in competitive power lifting. Sadly, I saw him in a sports car walking with a cane after a catastrophic injury. It's pretty much game over at this stage of the game BUT he lived a good life. He's made a ton of money and has a beautiful stunner of a wife plus a ton of sports cars. life is good. I agree with you and I don't recommend power lifting. I found 5x5 is dangerous enough if doing it right. No injury if form and techniques on point. No anatomical imbalance or injury.

Keep it up man. The lock down has been trash. I lost count on gym routines since the beginning of the pandemic.
 
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