"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Chrispy

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Originally posted by asxx
When a girl keeps asking "what did u do last night" or "what are you doing tonight"? is it a hint for a date?

She always smiles at me. She called me her favorite member in gym ...perfect nose..big muscles...articulate...very funny.

Plus one day she touched my chest.. " she wanted to rub lint from sweater" on me

I would like a woman's perspective on this
Follow on that hint and make a conversation with her! Talk about what you did do last night or what you are doing...maybe she likes or does the same thing..then get a date out of that! Very simple. Just remember to keep it simple.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
Dude it took me ONE SMS to get her to ask me out and plan a date.... I've never needed to call a girl, EVER. A simple single SMS has always been sufficient .
Yes. Use all tools at your disposal. It's all in how you use it, and how you come across.

You can use messaging, and come across as a guy who's too scared to pick up the phone.

Or, you can come across as a guy who is using messaging because it's simply convienient for him and doesn't care what medium he uses to contact people. Ideally, she'll contact YOU through messaging.

Different things work for different people. Don't jump too quickly and make generalizations like "Messaging is for pu55ies with no ballz"

Peace- -E-Z
 

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Re: hi

Originally posted by asxx
I was gonna...today.... but that **** friend of hers was there so i went in gym...waited an hour and she was still there!!! FUK!!!
lol. keep us updated.
 

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One more thing...on my way to locker we made eye contact and she winked at me while she was still yapping to the other girl and then the coldness started after I lingered around. I just remembered that.
 

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i read this whole damn long thing.

either grab your damn balls and ask her out or shut the hell up.

its hard for me to imagine someone 6'2" 275 prancing around a skinny girl.

it doesnt matter if her friend is around is not,

if you are that scared then just grab her by the hand and say to the friend "excuse us for a moment"

ask her out already, you are lucky this girl is stuck on you b/c most would have decided that you would be too dumb to date anyways.

you have asked enough questions that all lead you to the same thing.

you pick up hints like mice pick up basketballs.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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