"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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highschool wingmen.....

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how would that work? and also, what is the need of a wingman anyway?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Cassanova_Child said:
how would that work? and also, what is the need of a wingman anyway?
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It all depends on the company you keep, if you do not trust your friends to do their job as the secondary guy when necessary then i suggest that you do not focus on large groups of girls or even a set of two. In a large group the wingman will effectively provide secondary entertainment to the girls who you are not interested in and will at the same time raise your social proof by speaking good things about you through stories and such. In the two girl situation it is best to have a wingman so you can easily isolate one of the girls whilest your friend takes the other. No girl will allow you to take her friend away from her while she sits alone.

Its based on personal preference, because i have had a wingman come in quite handy at times, though a few times it really didn't help out. But if he does everything correctly then it can never be a negative asset.
 
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tekniq is pretty on the dot

they make you sound good in front of your target, and if you are in a set they can distract people who aren't your target so you can focus on ... surprisingly your target.
 
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