miniPIMPIN
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I will share with you some key tips on how I am getting over my approach anxiety and being more successful.
If you can't approach you most likely arent very popular. Most times when I would be afraid of approaching a girl, I would think "I can't approach her, I'm not popular enough. She thinks I'm a loser." This is completely wrong. Her decision on weather or not to give you her number is NOT based on your popularity. The cool kids will NOT think of you any less if you get rejected. If anything, they will see you talking to a fine girl and like you for at least trying! You will become more popular by simply disregarding popularity and approaching girls!
Don't think about what to say just say what comes to mind. Alot of people will think "What should I say?" "What if we hit akward silence" First of all, you must eliminate those thoughts and keep this in mind... The b*tch could care less what you say. she decides weather to give you her number or not before she even meets you. When you hit akward silence just go for the number close. If she rejects you or asks for your number, get the f*ck out. If its a yes, then iether stay and give her shy ass another shot at giving you some good conversation or get the f*ck out. Honestly, as long as your not talking about how your paladin reached level 75 on FFXI or w/e it does'nt matter what you say.
GIRLS LIKE BOYS. People expect you to approach. There is NO way around this if you want to be successful with women. You may get one or two per fvcking year that might approach you. But chances are they are overly desperate and approach anyone. Those are the attention who*res. If she rejects you act as if it was nothing and move on.
Stop caring what people think. None of them are going to matter in the long run. When you get out of high school you wont see anyone you used to see in high school most likely. Just follow your gut feeling. If she rejects you it realy not all that bad. just think of it as being one step closer to finding that perfect girl.
See choosing. Use your right brained senses to pick up on weather or not she is digging you. No more 2 or 3 seconds of eye contact. I dont care if the b*tch glances at you for a split second go up to her ass anyway!
Most of us have been exposed to some of the highest game on the planet. Its up to us to put it in action. Our knowledge is no good just sitting in our heads! We must think like DJ's wherever we go. If we see a fine girl walking bye thats feelin us we gotta take that opportunity and get her number. The number is where it all starts in highschool. THERE IS NO WAY AROUND IT.
hope i helped some people. This whole thing was based off of my experiences.
If you can't approach you most likely arent very popular. Most times when I would be afraid of approaching a girl, I would think "I can't approach her, I'm not popular enough. She thinks I'm a loser." This is completely wrong. Her decision on weather or not to give you her number is NOT based on your popularity. The cool kids will NOT think of you any less if you get rejected. If anything, they will see you talking to a fine girl and like you for at least trying! You will become more popular by simply disregarding popularity and approaching girls!
Don't think about what to say just say what comes to mind. Alot of people will think "What should I say?" "What if we hit akward silence" First of all, you must eliminate those thoughts and keep this in mind... The b*tch could care less what you say. she decides weather to give you her number or not before she even meets you. When you hit akward silence just go for the number close. If she rejects you or asks for your number, get the f*ck out. If its a yes, then iether stay and give her shy ass another shot at giving you some good conversation or get the f*ck out. Honestly, as long as your not talking about how your paladin reached level 75 on FFXI or w/e it does'nt matter what you say.
GIRLS LIKE BOYS. People expect you to approach. There is NO way around this if you want to be successful with women. You may get one or two per fvcking year that might approach you. But chances are they are overly desperate and approach anyone. Those are the attention who*res. If she rejects you act as if it was nothing and move on.
Stop caring what people think. None of them are going to matter in the long run. When you get out of high school you wont see anyone you used to see in high school most likely. Just follow your gut feeling. If she rejects you it realy not all that bad. just think of it as being one step closer to finding that perfect girl.
See choosing. Use your right brained senses to pick up on weather or not she is digging you. No more 2 or 3 seconds of eye contact. I dont care if the b*tch glances at you for a split second go up to her ass anyway!
Most of us have been exposed to some of the highest game on the planet. Its up to us to put it in action. Our knowledge is no good just sitting in our heads! We must think like DJ's wherever we go. If we see a fine girl walking bye thats feelin us we gotta take that opportunity and get her number. The number is where it all starts in highschool. THERE IS NO WAY AROUND IT.
hope i helped some people. This whole thing was based off of my experiences.