"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

High maintenance woman in my condo

Luis_Rancagua

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 25, 2006
Messages
25
Reaction score
0
There is this hot-looking high maintenance blonde (with blue eyes) that lives in my condo. In fact, she has lived there for almost 3-years. Guys, this chick is smoking hot. She’s the kind of woman that spends a lot of time on makeup, hair care, nails, and dress.

She likes dating these jerky lawyers or stock-brokers. Many of these boyfriends don’t last long with her. It would appear that she changes her boyfriends almost every 3-4 months.

There’s also the high heal shoes she wears. They cost more than your car payment, the diamond ring that she uses is of a very valuable carat. The list is endless guys. I hope you understand my point here.

Furthermore, she has this annoying yapping Chihuahua as a pet. She is vain. You like looking at her, and she likes looking at herself as well. She’s a complete snob. One day, I ran into her inside the front lobby of my building. We had eye contact. She suddenly gave me this strange look that seem to say: “…you wish you could have me loser, but you’re not good enough for me…” What a b!tch, but she is a real challenge.

Although I have some deep respect for myself, I will not compromise my integrity by lowering myself to her with the hope of going down her pants some day (I hope).

So what I decided to do is to ignore her by not giving her the time or day. I would walk by her and ignore the sh!t out-of-her. This cold war game went on for nearly 3-years. However, 4-weeks ago she suddenly open-up a conversation with me inside the elevator. I was very surprised that Madame Snob would even initiate a conversation with me. Why??? For nearly 3-years she treated me as if I was a piece of dirt.

What strike me the most is what she said to me in the elevator: “…I see you all the time around the building… You look like a swell guy… You know I shouldn’t be a snob with my neighbors…” Wow!!!! This statement was incredible. Why??? Because she was actually opening her heart to me by apologizing to me. In fact, if you were to decipher her double talk, it would appear that she is trying to say that she’s sorry that she’s been a b!tch to me for nearly 3-years. I have to admit that by the time she broke this conversation in the elevator, she has been single for nearly 4-months. In fact, I saw her on Valentine day alone at 10PM walking her dog by the front of the building alone. You would wonder as to where is her date on Valentine day.

Anyway, from that day, it would appear that we sort of became friends, until I saw her yesterday walking-out the front door with this arrogant looking lawyer driving a BMW. Probably, she will be going back to her old ways of ignoring the crap out of me. It always seems that the arrogant lawyers dress in the Armani pinstripe suits are always conquering this b!tch. Money certainly wins in this scenario.

Guys, please help me out here. I need advice from everyone in this board. Why did this b!tch started to apologize to me. I’m really confuse. Is she up to dirty tricks. Should I trust her.
 
Last edited:

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

KillaCam

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 26, 2005
Messages
770
Reaction score
3
Luis_Rancagua said:
There is this hot-looking high maintenance blonde that lives in my condo. In fact, she has lived there for almost 3-years. Guys, this chick is smoking hot. She’s the kind of woman that spends a lot of time on makeup, hair care, nails, and dress. She likes dating these jerky lawyers or stock-brokers. Many of these boyfriends don’t last long with her. It would appear that changes boyfriends almost every 3-4 months.

There’s also the high heal shoes she wears. They cost more than your car payment, the diamond ring that she uses is of a very valuable carat. The list is endless guys. I hope you understand my point here.

Furthermore, she has this annoying yapping Chihuahua as a pet. She is vain. You like looking at her, and she likes looking at herself as well. She’s a complete snob. One day, I ran into her inside the front lobby of my building. We had eye contact. She suddenly gave me this strange look that seem to say: “…you wish you could have me loser, but you’re not good enough for me…” What a b!tch, but she is a real challenge.

Although I have some deep respect for myself, I will not compromise my integrity by lowering myself to her with the hope of going down her pants some day (I hope).

So what I decided to do is to ignore her by not giving her the time or day. I would walk by her and ignore the sh!t out-of-her. This cold war game went on for nearly 3-years. However, 4-weeks ago she suddenly open-up a conversation with me inside the elevator. I was very surprised that Madame Snob would even initiate a conversation with me. Why??? For nearly 3-years she treated me as if I was a piece of dirt.

What strike me the most is what she said to me in the elevator: “…I see you all the time around the building… You look like a swell guy… You know I shouldn’t be a snob with my neighbors…” Wow!!!! This statement was incredible. Why??? Because she was actually opening her heart to me by apologizing to me. In fact, if you were to decipher her double talk, it would appear that she is trying to say that she’s sorry that she’s been a b!tch to me for nearly 3-years. I have to admit that by the time she broke this conversation in the elevator, she has been single for nearly 4-months. In fact, I saw her on Valentine day alone at 10PM walking her dog by the front of the building alone. You would wonder as to where is her date on Valentine day.

Anyway, from that day we it would appear that we sort of became friends, until I saw her yesterday walking-out the front door with this arrogant looking lawyer driving a BMW. Probably, she will be going back to her old ways of ignoring the crap out of me.

Guys, please help me out here. I need advice from everyone in this board. Why did this b!tch started to apologize to me. I’m really confuse. Is she up to dirty tricks. Should I trust her.
Ask her out. Assess the date. Then move from there.
 

sparky0000

Banned
Joined
Apr 27, 2006
Messages
669
Reaction score
4
She’s the kind of woman that spends a lot of time on makeup, hair care, nails, and dress.
:crackup: ...I just found that really funny. If you boys were not so lazy I would feel sorry for you.
 

drift king

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 20, 2006
Messages
582
Reaction score
1
Luis_Rancagua said:
There is this hot-looking high maintenance blonde that lives in my condo. In fact, she has lived there for almost 3-years. Guys, this chick is smoking hot. She’s the kind of woman that spends a lot of time on makeup, hair care, nails, and dress.

She likes dating these jerky lawyers or stock-brokers. Many of these boyfriends don’t last long with her. It would appear that she changes her boyfriends almost every 3-4 months.

There’s also the high heal shoes she wears. They cost more than your car payment, the diamond ring that she uses is of a very valuable carat. The list is endless guys. I hope you understand my point here.

Furthermore, she has this annoying yapping Chihuahua as a pet. She is vain. You like looking at her, and she likes looking at herself as well. She’s a complete snob. One day, I ran into her inside the front lobby of my building. We had eye contact. She suddenly gave me this strange look that seem to say: “…you wish you could have me loser, but you’re not good enough for me…” What a b!tch, but she is a real challenge.

Although I have some deep respect for myself, I will not compromise my integrity by lowering myself to her with the hope of going down her pants some day (I hope).

So what I decided to do is to ignore her by not giving her the time or day. I would walk by her and ignore the sh!t out-of-her. This cold war game went on for nearly 3-years. However, 4-weeks ago she suddenly open-up a conversation with me inside the elevator. I was very surprised that Madame Snob would even initiate a conversation with me. Why??? For nearly 3-years she treated me as if I was a piece of dirt.

What strike me the most is what she said to me in the elevator: “…I see you all the time around the building… You look like a swell guy… You know I shouldn’t be a snob with my neighbors…” Wow!!!! This statement was incredible. Why??? Because she was actually opening her heart to me by apologizing to me. In fact, if you were to decipher her double talk, it would appear that she is trying to say that she’s sorry that she’s been a b!tch to me for nearly 3-years. I have to admit that by the time she broke this conversation in the elevator, she has been single for nearly 4-months. In fact, I saw her on Valentine day alone at 10PM walking her dog by the front of the building alone. You would wonder as to where is her date on Valentine day.

Anyway, from that day we it would appear that we sort of became friends, until I saw her yesterday walking-out the front door with this arrogant looking lawyer driving a BMW. Probably, she will be going back to her old ways of ignoring the crap out of me.

Guys, please help me out here. I need advice from everyone in this board. Why did this b!tch started to apologize to me. I’m really confuse. Is she up to dirty tricks. Should I trust her.
What did you reply with when she said what she said in the elevator?

to be honest next time you see her just acknowledge her but don't make any convo.. except maybe hi and a smile then carry on walking.. if you're in the elevator together just nod and say hi but don't make convo.. just wait for her to reply with something.. let the tension of silence build up.

if you keep doing this a few times she'll more than likely start a convo with you.. find out what apartment number she is, tell her yours.. suggest her coming down to yours for whatever bullsh*t reason there is ie to watch a game, coffee, whatever.

despite her out with some other dude don't let this throw you off.. more importantly get out there and meet other girls especially hot ones.. the best thing you can do is have her see you with a hot chick.. your status increases exponentially as its like a personal vouch.

when you saw her outside on valentines day by herself walking her dog that was a killer time for you to get laid.. if shes alone on that day it would have been so easy for you to get some.. duno why you didn't decide to go say hi or whatnot when you saw that opportunity.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

donjoe

Don Juan
Joined
May 2, 2006
Messages
23
Reaction score
0
so a new bf every 4 months, that makes 3 bfs a yr, shes been living in the condos for 3 yrs thats 9 bfs... before that a couple of more bfs lets assume total 15 bfs plus flings here and there, one night stand's etc etc so lets predict around 20 guys who have ****ed her loose loose *****......nope she ain't a slut.
 
Joined
Jul 19, 2006
Messages
15
Reaction score
0
donjoe said:
so a new bf every 4 months, that makes 3 bfs a yr, shes been living in the condos for 3 yrs thats 9 bfs... before that a couple of more bfs lets assume total 15 bfs plus flings here and there, one night stand's etc etc so lets predict around 20 guys who have ****ed her loose loose *****......nope she ain't a slut.

I think many guys here slept with more then 20 women during this time. Do you consider them to be sluts as well?
 

donjoe

Don Juan
Joined
May 2, 2006
Messages
23
Reaction score
0
Jeremy the Wicked said:
I think many guys here slept with more then 20 women during this time. Do you consider them to be sluts as well?
what u think is not important cos ur thinking tells me that ur an AFC big time "guys here slept with more than 20 women" LOL apart from a few guys, most of what u will find here are pimplefaced virgin DJ wannabes just like u.
 

KoalaKing

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 5, 2006
Messages
427
Reaction score
3
These types of beauty queens don't really care if the guys who they go out with are DJ's or AFC's, they are usually attracted to the more successful guys who are pleasant to look at, as they always get to have everything their own way they don't care for guys who are a challenge or who will stand up against them, as they want to have some fun and have it all very quickly, they are not worth worrying about unless you want a quick fu-ck, but your only probably going to get that if you do everything that she wants you to do, this type of lady has got it made, she doesn't want a DJ just a pretty boy to play with her for a while. :yes:
 

donjoe

Don Juan
Joined
May 2, 2006
Messages
23
Reaction score
0
they are sluts nothing more nothing less, dumb as a rock, have **** of a personality, *****es like these are just good to at look and are *** dumpsters that is till they open their ****ing mouth, than u feel like putting ur **** in their and choke them to death, they are lucky that they are good looking cos once beauty fades they become worthless pieces of crap, and they are in millions walking around in this country, thats why everyone risks death to come here, maybe its something in the water that turns majority of women into worthless piece of trash.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

Sir Juanalot

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 10, 2006
Messages
234
Reaction score
5
Location
England
donjoe said:
they are sluts nothing more nothing less, dumb as a rock, have **** of a personality, *****es like these are just good to at look and are *** dumpsters that is till they open their ****ing mouth, than u feel like putting ur **** in their and choke them to death, they are lucky that they are good looking cos once beauty fades they become worthless pieces of crap, and they are in millions walking around in this country, thats why everyone risks death to come here, maybe its something in the water that turns majority of women into worthless piece of trash.
Jesus, hate women much? :nono:
 

donjoe

Don Juan
Joined
May 2, 2006
Messages
23
Reaction score
0
jesus does not hate women.
 

wayword

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 13, 2006
Messages
1,477
Reaction score
21
Location
BFE
Luis_Rancagua said:
I was very surprised that Madame Snob would even initiate a conversation with me. Why??? For nearly 3-years she treated me as if I was a piece of dirt.
You worship the ground this slvtty bysh (who pissed on you for 3 years and counting) walks on simply cuz she's HOT...and you call HER the snob? Lol...you guys kill me... :crackup:
 

donjoe

Don Juan
Joined
May 2, 2006
Messages
23
Reaction score
0
let me set u straight than, majority of them are worthless piece of waste does not mean i hate them.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Top