"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Im fairly new to this forum, ive just been lurking for quite a bit but now i been stumped....

Lately the type of women i been attracting to my life, oddly enough, have been coke addicts in the past. Now is it bad idea to fool with these type of women? One of them I cut contact when she tried to get me to buy her weed, I had just met her the other night (extremely hott, as i was on my way to a FB of mine.. but i ran into her so i cancelled plans for the night which turned to be a mistake, so after complete failure, i got angry I then finished those plans with FB and headed to her at around 2 in the morning) . but Anyways i dont do drugs. But the fact she tried to use me so soon i disliked. IS it wrong for me to just get rid of her like that? Should i tell her how i feel, and still try to get into her pants?

This other girl who knew me in highschool well I just talked to her on the phone tonite for the first time in like 5 years. She approached me my freshman year said i was really cute, but i was a AFC like so I didnt number close. I ended up getting this other girlfriend, and it turned out the girl knew her so she kind of knows my past relationship. So I found her on myspace the other day and I got her number, called her up about 4 hours ago, and right off the bat she began to tell me her life problems, how she did coke in the past for two years. Hmmm.. Come to think of it maybe she did it because she felt like she knew me from back then and wanted to catch up on things. It was really weird to me and she kept laughing , like a pissed off lauigh, or in a uncomfortable manner, couldnt decide. ...about her problems and how she crashed her 40,000 car when she was coked up (Damn i had no idea she WAS maybe still is such a druggy, and i hate girls that brag about what they have) it and i got turned off. She seemed psycho, i hung up on her. Literally. But I dont know. Would it be a dumb idea to get involved with her? Im thinking i Could lay pretty easy, but the way she talked on the phone its like she was cracked out... Any suggestions?

Ok let me clear this out, I do want to Hit it. But my main fear is, hitting a former druggy.... Yes she might have STD's, but im very careful. But Ive never really been with a ex druggy before, I dont know if they cling, or if they end up psycho if you hit and quit and get their drug dealers to spray my windows and try to kill me in my sleep...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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War Against Betaism

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In order for the goal to be reached a map is needed. Tell us exactly what this stump is; your current situation, any possible one-itis, etc. A good place for all newcomers to go to is to read a bunch of the best rated topics in the tips forum.
 

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I personally don't mess with druggies period, they tend to carry one thing I hate the most...mood swings. The littlest things can piss them off very easily. I don't think it was an entirely bad idea to cut these two women off, there's fresher and cleaner women out there that you can get. Plus, you don't want to risk getting anything anyways, I heard you're more vulnerable to those types of diseases when you're doing drugs.
 
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