"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hey anyone tried online dating before.

playainthemaking

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So yeah i am trying to widen my chances of meeting as many women as possible. I am strictly doing this for a side job type thing. I realize that internet dating is a bit of a joke but if it works and i can send some girl a message,.leave my house and go to the mall and pick up women, you can see how it can add up nicely. Anyways please give experiences and websites. I tried to sign up to POF but that site is a joke that bans accounts as soon as you sign up really, no joke. I signed up and didnt even get a chance to click on my area code and then bam i was banned.

So yeah websites and experiences please no dumb comments. You dont like internet dating then dont bother commenting. I also have been wondering if i should make a myspace account. I always figured it was a joke in a way but i could be wrong. Let me know what you think of myspace too.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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lol i have read some post or comments about guys doing online dating on this site. Why so quite all a sudden come on guys.
 

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of course. i've had high degrees of success with online dating but i must admit the quality of women i've met on the internet, ON AVERAGE, were less than women in a club or on the street
 

playainthemaking

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yo

lol so only one guy fesses up. come on people keep the community ball rolling and reply. What sites?
 

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plentyoffish and most free ones have total ugly women on them.

the one where i've had most success has been hotornot. i've got over 210 women to add me on that in 15 minutes worth of work. out of those i ended up getting the msn of about 20 or so and had sex with 4-5 of them. it's not bad for the amount of time it takes i suppose. i was doing it while i was at work too, lol.

i dont use it as my main tool of attracting women however, it's just add-on bonus to get some extra ass on the side when you are too busy with things in your life.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I've been doin online dating for a long time while also talking to girls in real life. Myspace is decen, 2years ago I used to b on there everyday sendin bout 50 ot 100messages a day fo a week straight. Had about 5 or 6 lays from myspace. Pof met about 2 or 3,blackplanet met about 5,crushspot met 1,aol chatrooms bout 8,localhookupz bout 2,craiglist 1.

All of that n im goin to say that all of that messagin n work is a waste of time at times. I mean its ok when u busy like I am now but its not worth it. I just signed up for match.com n going to see how that is but im almost about to quit onlone dating all together except for when im at work likw now n jus stick to real life.


On a sidenote, the chatlines on the phone lik vibeline n others is much better
 
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