He's such a f-ckin' natural!

[Cod3r]

It has nothing to do with what you just listed...

It's the fact that the guy has confidence to do what the fvck he wants to do. If a girl denied him, he'd probably have a good laugh about it with his frat brothers and then have the girls best friend sucking him off in the bathroom, he dosen't care and has no need for a particular outcome....

You CAN develop this 'IT' factor but it takes ALOT of work in the field if you don't already have it. You need enough approaches and to be in enough sets and have had enough experiences that you don't NEED anything else, now you're just having fun, girls notice this relaxed attitude and flock to you...


-Cod3r

 

[DJ_in_making]

My frat brother is perhaps the best "natural" I've ever seen. Its simply amazing, and probably on a level above "trained game".

I've been trying to observe what he does so good without even knowing it but I've only been able to pin-point a few things.

Mainly, in all of the mixers or parties, he starts out dancing with a girl, as he dances he begins touching her all over- initiating kino. After a while dancing and kinoing he will move her to a corner and he'll switch from booty grinding to face to face dancing.

While face to face, he gets his head within close proximity to hers, both pecking her and attempting for a kiss. If she pulls away he tries again, why woudln't he, she is STILL dancing with him right? He is very persistent. Afterwards the dancing will become much more physical as he begins to kino escalate.

He would then talk to her. And heres the important thing, he's sitting and she's standing! that's a big DHV, by being more comfortable then she is he says "I have more value then you, you're working for me". I'm not able to exactly hear what he's saying but he continues to kino her, touching her hands anything else he can get away with (which is a lot believe me) .

They keep talking for a while and eventually they walk back to his room with him! tada... well, that's what I've been able to decipher from him, I don't know what else it is, maybe just an "IT" factor idk. Any ideas lemme know...

 

[vorbis]

I really think the main part of game is being able to persist without making the girl uncomfortable or coming off as needy. There's definetly an "IT" element about ir as I know some guys who just have it. Time in the field helps build that fine line you need to walk.

 

[nvictor]

vorbis is right. there is a part of "I don't mind the outcome...

 

[wskbb]

is he good looking, tall / toned?