Here's the problem.........

[mrtigman]

Ok, here's the deal.

First of all, I was really good friends with this girl for about 2 years, and we became really good friends, almost best friends. I thought there was something romantic in it, everyone around us did, so about 6 months ago, i asked her out on a date, to which she said yes to.

Then for the next 6 weeks she just blankly ignored me, and when i tried to talk to her, she just blanked me, and didnt reply when i phoned/texted her. I then asked her what her problem was, and she snapped at me that maybe it was better if we stayed friends, to which i said 'sure' to.

Anyway for the last 3 months since then, I've seen her practically every day around college, and everytime i walk past her, she just ignores me, and then when i do say hi, she just mumbles and then walks off. Me and one of her/and my female friends will be talking, and she'll come up to our friend mid-way through out conversation, talk to her for a while whilst totally ignoring me, then walk off.

Anyway, here's the problem. Our mutual friend was talking to her the other day, and asked her what the problem was between us. She replied "dunno, there is no problem" to which our friend replied 'there obviously is" cos u just ignore him. the girl in question told our mutual friend, that she felt i had "pressured her" to go out with me, and that she still wanted to be friends with me, just felt awkward around me and didn't know what to say. Our friend said to her "so if he spoke to you, would you speak back", she said "yes".

So the next day, I'm at college, and I see her in the corridor, and I say "Hi", she just grunted "Hello" and walked off. Our mutual friend says that I should try and talk to her, but i dunno, is it worth the hassle, shouldnt i just walk away?

I dunno, its just all awkward..........

 

[Reagan]

Sally says forget her.

 

[Tazman]

Why do you want to be friends with someone who treats you like this? Don't act like a desperate little boy and just forget her, she's disrespecting you big time.

 

[Reagan]

Do this for a fun little experiment. The next time you walk by here, instead of doing the "hi", just give her the middle finger. And don't smile. Just has a expressionless look on your face. Make sure you laugh about it after, cause what you did should be hillarious.

 

[LongDrinkofWater]

Do this for a fun little experiment. The next time you walk by here, instead of doing the "hi", just give her the middle finger. And don't smile. Just has a expressionless look on your face. Make sure you laugh about it after, cause what you did should be hillarious.

You know, after reading the posts, flipping her the bird would be the perfect thing to do. It will probably make you feel better too.......

 

[flexion_]

Well you were in the LJBF zone and you never got out of that zone. Forget about her and go date other women thats really the only solution.

 

[Maverick001]

Originally posted by mrtigman
Ok, here's the deal.

First of all, I was really good friends with this girl for about 2 years, and we became really good friends, almost best friends. I thought there was something romantic in it, everyone around us did, so about 6 months ago, i asked her out on a date, to which she said yes to.

Then for the next 6 weeks she just blankly ignored me, and when i tried to talk to her, she just blanked me, and didnt reply when i phoned/texted her. I then asked her what her problem was, and she snapped at me that maybe it was better if we stayed friends, to which i said 'sure' to.

Anyway for the last 3 months since then, I've seen her practically every day around college, and everytime i walk past her, she just ignores me, and then when i do say hi, she just mumbles and then walks off. Me and one of her/and my female friends will be talking, and she'll come up to our friend mid-way through out conversation, talk to her for a while whilst totally ignoring me, then walk off.

Anyway, here's the problem. Our mutual friend was talking to her the other day, and asked her what the problem was between us. She replied "dunno, there is no problem" to which our friend replied 'there obviously is" cos u just ignore him. the girl in question told our mutual friend, that she felt i had "pressured her" to go out with me, and that she still wanted to be friends with me, just felt awkward around me and didn't know what to say. Our friend said to her "so if he spoke to you, would you speak back", she said "yes".

So the next day, I'm at college, and I see her in the corridor, and I say "Hi", she just grunted "Hello" and walked off. Our mutual friend says that I should try and talk to her, but i dunno, is it worth the hassle, shouldnt i just walk away?

I dunno, its just all awkward..........

mrtigman,

Welcome to the board. Read the DJ Bible if you haven`t already and enrol yourself in Boot Camp at the earliest opportunity. Now that I`m made my site plug for Sosuave...on to your situation.

Here`s what I think. You say that you were really good friends with this chica and then you asked her out on a date.

I think that there was something romantic in the whole thing too because the girl said yes to the date. Otherwise, she would`ve refused the date and said something like, "Let`s just remain friends".

I could be totally wrong here but I think the chica was looking for this to take a romantic turn and she gave you a shot. You dropped the ball and now the chica blames you rightly or wrongly, as she also had to carry the ball for her part too, and now it seems by your account that she has little or no respect for you.

Don`t sweat it. Everyone gets a taste of striking out and the only thing is to learn from it and move on. If that`s what you decide then cut-off all contact with this girl and start gaming others immediately.

Unless of course, you want to have some fun. Read this if you haven`t already: GANJI GAMES

Keep us posted.

Cheers,
Mav

 

[Logen]

cut her off. forget her. she's a waste of time and not worth beign friends with.

 

[victor22]

YOu can also do one thing to her , ignore her for one week and start doing the exact opposite of what she is doing it to you.
while she is talking to her friends go and talk to her friends not to her, while she is talking to friends , call her freinds cell and talk to the other girl , this wil make the girl go crazy.

 

[mrtigman]

So to forget about her is the best policy in this case, what if i keep seeing her at college though? She said hi to me on MSN last night, and we talked for a while, but i dunno, im still confused!!!!