"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Here's another example of what's wrong with women nowadays....

Joined
Sep 27, 2008
Messages
524
Reaction score
3
"CC08, all you do is come on here and ***** and moan about how bad modern day society is because you can't get some dumb ho to jump on your ****. It's your own fault you can't meet women, and I can't really blame them for licking my ballsack instead of hanging out with a whiny loser like you.

This website is about improving your inner game, and since you've made little attempt to actually do that, then I think you should leave."

"I'm not going to tell you to shut up and stop *****ing, that would do you nor I any good. I've been where you are albeit for a few weeks this summer, but I know how much it sucks. This site isn't helping you either. The more you read this seduction crap, the more of an "understanding" about the world and society you get. But that same "understanding" makes you question your own reality and leaves you confused and even more apathetic. You can "understand" the entire world, but until you do something with that understanding then its worthless. THink of what you want. Forget your definiton of successful. Is successful the person who makes a ****load of money and gets all the girls? TO some yes but to others no.

Even worse, youre in overanalyze mode. Ive been there. I got out of it by
1) getting a therapist
2) taking antidepressants

You're clinically depressed, and it isnt your fault, its an illness. Go seek some professional help because this is something you cant beat alone."

You're both right, I found this site, hoping it would give me some answers,instead,just more questions. Instead of actually improving, all I seemingly do is question,debate,and argue. Is that some sort of complex or syndrome? I have gone back and forth from blaiming myself to the world. I have been trying to set something up with a therapist,but insurance issues got in the way. I think sitting down,talking with someone,and laying it all out will help me solve alot of these hang ups. I have some rather severe social ones.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

moneybanks24

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 4, 2008
Messages
41
Reaction score
1
Yeah, you're overanalyzing yourself and you're going to tear yourself to bits until theres nothing left if you keep this up. It's an illness. Search depression symptoms on google and I'm positive you'll find a lot of correlations between those symptoms and yourself. Also buy the book feeling good (not sure who its by, but search it in amazon)
 
Top