"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Here is something for you boys..ENJOY!

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I thought about putting this in anything else, but I think it is appropriate as this reminds me of threads on Sosuave and especially Mature man. Have a look at this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tpQqH4H_SUQ

I saw this when it first come out years ago and it reminds me of some people on here when the topic of what to think about when your find out your girl has gotten around. This movie is a fvcking classic too!!!!! One of Kevin's best.

Do you act like Dante when you find out? What is worse; having sex with 12 women or your women svcking 37 Richards?

This is exactly why you should not discuss past encounters. It never turns out well.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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reverse the roles..what if you bumped into a ton of girls that you hooked up with while out with your current girlfriend. How would you feel ?? How do you think she would feel ??

How would you feel if she judged you for it ??
This is exactly why you should not discuss past encounters. It never turns out well.
for some guys this is an issue for some its not.
 

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I was from the group that a woman's past in MOST cases should not be a huge issue as I have had enough of my own skeletons. But this clip from Clerks certainly could be used by the guys that think a woman's past DOES in fact matter.

Now the way this clip unfolded, if it were me, I would have a big a$$ problem with her past.

Not sure if you have seen this movie or not; but later on she brings him Lasagna to somehow ease the feeling of torment he has been dealing with... I do not think that would help me!!!

What I failed to mention in the threads debating the issue is what would be my magic number what would be too many... and in this case; 37 would probably make me feel just like poor old Dante. For me it is not an issue until they have crossed my demarcation lines and 37 would not be just stepping, but long jumping it.

Drum&Bass said:
How would you feel if she judged you for it ??
for some guys this is an issue for some its not.
As a matter of fact I have been judged by my past. I did not discuss it with her, but an a$$hole I used to be friends decided it was his responsibility to try and do as much damage as he possibly could and told her and a bunch of lies to go right along with it. I was not ashamed of the truths and told her this, but one day Karma has a funny way of getting back to people that lie to wreck others.
 
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