Here is a video on how to NC if you want your EX

[Stugots26]

Women these days are fickle. And they often overreact. So it's not uncommon - especially seen on here - for women to attempt to manufacture drama or create fights or attempt to manipulate men. It's up to us to show them, when they try, that we're not going to react and we're not going to accept less than what we deserve. To them, they might consider it just "a fight." To us, we might consider it "breaking up." Where it actually falls is debatable, but it could very well just be sh1t-testing that a woman will then try to walk back and make excuses for.

I maintain a firm policy that a woman's greatest strength is her façade of weakness, so if a woman is willing to swallow her pride and acknowledge that she's been bullsh1tting me and start really regularly showing me how much she values me, I'm willing to allow her to convince me to start dating her again. But I always leverage myself and maintain the frame, and I'm ever-evolving, so I don't think it comes across as beta.

If a woman filed away all of your beta moves to use against you later, you would never see a man able to turn a female friend into a girlfriend. If you can uncover a woman's attraction for you and get her intensely turned on by you, it will not matter what you did in the past. It matters what you do in the present.

 

[Yorkex]

Women these days are fickle. And they often overreact. So it's not uncommon - especially seen on here - for women to attempt to manufacture drama or create fights or attempt to manipulate men. It's up to us to show them, when they try, that we're not going to react and we're not going to accept less than what we deserve. To them, they might consider it just "a fight." To us, we might consider it "breaking up." Where it actually falls is debatable, but it could very well just be sh1t-testing that a woman will then try to walk back and make excuses for.

I maintain a firm policy that a woman's greatest strength is her façade of weakness, so if a woman is willing to swallow her pride and acknowledge that she's been bullsh1tting me and start really regularly showing me how much she values me, I'm willing to allow her to convince me to start dating her again. But I always leverage myself and maintain the frame, and I'm ever-evolving, so I don't think it comes across as beta.

If a woman filed away all of your beta moves to use against you later, you would never see a man able to turn a female friend into a girlfriend. If you can uncover a woman's attraction for you and get her intensely turned on by you, it will not matter what you did in the past. It matters what you do in the present.

Finally someone with a sane mindset contributes.
I was alpha when I met and dated my ex ...however when I fell deeply from her I started dropping my alpha status and she kept picking fights ...so I broke it off fast.

I put her in NC then talked to her to meet up again after 3 months. Now given she has a new boyfriend now...I still moved her to be attracted again. She gave me a blow job first time seeing her in 3 months. She was talking about how good I look and how mature I am now.
Now I'm in a pole position to take her back or ditch her. How you react in the now is what women know ! They go by emotion first then logic. Why do you think the first answer they give after cheating is " I don't know " ...she has to spend time to think about how she actually did it.

Just this morning she texted me how she was thinking about us and was crying 3 days ago. Stay in the NOW and should be fine. Of course they will play their games but if you plan carefully you should be ahead of them.

 

[bulked up bro]

Finally someone with a sane mindset contributes.
I was alpha when I met and dated my ex ...however when I fell deeply from her I started dropping my alpha status and she kept picking fights ...so I broke it off fast.

I put her in NC then talked to her to meet up again after 3 months. Now given she has a new boyfriend now...I still moved her to be attracted again. She gave me a blow job first time seeing her in 3 months. She was talking about how good I look and how mature I am now.
Now I'm in a pole position to take her back or ditch her. How you react in the now is what women know ! They go by emotion first then logic. Why do you think the first answer they give after cheating is " I don't know " ...she has to spend time to think about how she actually did it.

Just this morning she texted me how she was thinking about us and was crying 3 days ago. Stay in the NOW and should be fine. Of course they will play their games but if you plan carefully you should be ahead of them.

It's short term attachment it will go back to how it was before.

 

[captain55]

Never even consider getting an ex back until you lock down a hotter woman, only then will you know if your feelings for her were legit