"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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supermanspjs

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ive been officially going out with this girl for a week now

but whenever we hang out and her best friend is with us, she kind of ignores me and only talks to her friend. but whever its just us, we have a great time.

how do i get her to stop ignoring me when her friend is around?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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supermanspjs said:
ive been officially going out with this girl for a week now

but whenever we hang out and her best friend is with us, she kind of ignores me and only talks to her friend. but whever its just us, we have a great time.

how do i get her to stop ignoring me when her friend is around?
If her friends going to be there, don't go.
 

supermanspjs

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but lets say i cant avoid it and i have to be with them both
then what?
 
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