Her dad is crazy

[Don Corleone]

alright guys, I need some advice. I've known this hot ass hispanic chick for most of my life, and have been very good friends with her family. Recently I have been hanging out with her and we definitely like eachother. She is 18, and I am 19.

Her dad won't let her go out at night. He wont let he go out on the weekends. He is the strictest person I have ever met. (he cried when he found out she wasn't a virgin). This girl is basically a prisoner in her own house. I honestly think that if I fycked her over, he would kill me.

I dont want to just blow this girl off, I mean she is worth going through some crap for, but I just don't know if I can handle her dad. I'm not sure what to do. I know I should just go on to the next girl, but I like this girl and she is great, her dad is just crazy. In fact, I am the only guy he has ever let her hang out with.(she normally sees her boyfriends at school).

What should I do?

 

[LuvMyArmyMan]

Well, if you knew anything about the hispanic culture, you'd understand completely. Fathers and brothers are very over-protective over their daughters/sisters. It is especially important for a girl to remain pure until marriage. So i can understand why he cried when he found out she wasnt a virgin. If i were you, i'd talk to her father and try to work something out. Maybe you can go over to dinner with them and let him get to know you. You need to earn his trust and it isnt going to happen overnight. You can only answer the question "is she worth it" We dont know her, only you do. Its gonna be tough to earn his trust. But eventually he might curb.

 

[Mr. Debonaire]

cheers

^ thats what i was going to say

go golfing with him or something. let him get to know you as a kind of younger buddy. then when he see's you with his daughter, he'll see his daughter with a friend he trusts

 

[LuvMyArmyMan]

It really pays to have a cross-cultural psychological development class in college. Teaches you loads of new stuff.

 

[TonyTheTigerOI]

Thank god its not the other way around... don corleone... if she was a lil italiana and her daddy saw her with a hispanic dude - SHOT.

Man, just hang out with her at her house while her dad is home so u can establish a little trust. Engage him in a little conversation.

"if you knew anythig about hispanic culture"

Oh shut up. MOST non american cultures are like this.

 

[Blue Phoenix]

I know a girl that has a father like this!

Actually her brother had sex with a girl he liked and his father put him out of his house!!!

He's the puritanist type, emotional and likes to shout at people when he's angry! This man doesn't want his girl to date, the same way as his son! He's pretty jealous and likes to "boss people around"!

In your case, you either date her "behind the scenes" or you move on.

Anyway, she's the one that have to stand up to her father not you! If she can't, it's better for you to move on, because it'll not be worth!

 

[idiot_boyfriend]

Wait.....

You said, "she sees her boyfriends at school".....


PLEASE CLARIFY!!