"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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helpp me - music arghh

hungry_american

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hey i need help makin a cd , needs to be "romantic" stuff. Already have Howie Day- colide and a Lifehouse song. Any suggestions?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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joekerr31

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how about "im so gay that im making you a mixed tape, perhaps you know some gay guy you could set me up with?"

that's a good song, sound like its right up your alley (no pun intended).

J
 

Lost In Translation

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songs for the back seat

Keith Sweat - Twisted
Monifa - Touch It
Next - Too Close
Montell Jordan - Get It On Tonite
Notorious B.I.G - Big Poppa
Salt n Pepa - Push It
Dru Hill - How Deep Is Your Love
Notorious B.I.G - Hypnotise
Nelly - Hot In Herre
Nelly - Work It
Nelly - Dilemma
Dante Thomas - Miss California
DJ Kool - Let Me Clear My Throat
Tone Loc - Wild Thing
Ma$e - Sittin On Top The World
Ice Cube feat. Ms Toi - You Can Do It
Ice Cube - Keep It Hot
Salt n Pepa - Giddy Up Remix
Fabolous feat. Ashanti - So Into You


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

" stop being insecure " i hate that saying. it's a cop out for not having enough balls to confront a woman about what she is doing THAT IS WRONG or potentially damaging to a long term relationship. – Lost In Translation
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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