"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm going to homecomming tommorrow night(saturday) with a girl i've known for a while... we're going to this nice fun place for dinner and then to the dance... i was thinking about doing something i read( might have been at this site but not sure) about buying a single red rose and putting it in the glove compartment with a sign saying "open me"... think this is a good or bad idea to do?

Any one got any other suggestions?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don't forget the ring.
 

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Could just give it her at the start of the night......

You Americans and your proms..........in Britian we get wasted at the end of term.
 

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Heh. double post.

Even so..........Go get some.
 
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as you can see we also like to make double posts to prove are point..you show them jonny:p
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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well no one really said if this a good or bad idea... i think it would just be different though and not something she was expecting that she would like...
 

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what if you put it in the glove compartment and she doesnt open it, when choosing which 1, you must remmeber this 1 a down side of putting it there, although i guess you could rescue the situation by aksing her to open it as oyu alegidly need to get somthing from the glove compertment:p bingo!!
 

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lol well... when there is a sign RIGHT IN FRONT OF HER... that said open me... and she doesn't... WoW... lol
 

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yeah, if the sign is right in front of her and she cant see it, i would ask you to kick her out of your car like a hot coal that's residing on your seat.
 
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