"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Help with rehab

willo

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Hey people,
I am recovering from a knee reconstruction and i am looking for advice from others who have experience on how to get back the muscle mass in my legs without damaging the graft.

I am 14 weeks into recovery and my physio last week said i can get into the weights and exercise again. The whole process has been really frustrating as i have gone from 185 pounds to 165 pounds since the injury (i'm 6ft 2inces) and i don't want to re injure the knee getting back into it.

Any advice will be much appreciated

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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NEWBIE101

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Originally posted by willo
Hey people,
I am recovering from a knee reconstruction and i am looking for advice from others who have experience on how to get back the muscle mass in my legs without damaging the graft.

I am 14 weeks into recovery and my physio last week said i can get into the weights and exercise again. The whole process has been really frustrating as i have gone from 185 pounds to 165 pounds since the injury (i'm 6ft 2inces) and i don't want to re injure the knee getting back into it.

Any advice will be much appreciated

:)
Well since I don't know how much recovered you really are I can't help you too much though.

I will say this though.

Do what you can. Start off light and don't frustrate your leg and build yourself back up to the strength you once were. When first coming back I would stick with some light isolation movements such as leg ext. and leg curls. Then once it gets stronger you can move to some leg presses and then eventually the king of all exercises SQUATS.

Hope this helps. If you have any questions then feel free to ask.
 

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Thx,
I'll try the leg extentions and leg curls at this stage; once i feel stable doing those, i'll run the leg presses and squats past my physio.
much appreciated

As to the stage of my recovery i have full range of movement when forced ie applying pressure on the back of the leg as you would when doing a quad streach. But as for normal leg bending i'm probably still 8 cms (which is approximately 3 inces) away from the other leg.
My main concern is the lack of muscle mass of the reconstructed quad and i am finding my other leg is gaining muscle mass much quicker than the injured leg through regular exercise (i must be favouring one leg). Also the outer side of the quad is gaining definition and mass quicker than the inner side this causes pain when walking for long periods (due to the knee cap moving slighly off to the side when moving).

So any exercises which work the inner side of the quads mainly would be much appreciated.
Ops it's a long one.
Cheers
 

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I would stay away from leg extensions personally, they can be hard on the repaired tissue. If you do them, make sure you don't move your leg down all the way, only about 45 degrees.

I had knee surgery in early September, if I could do it over I would work my VMO muscle harder(the "inside" part of the quad).

One good exercise involves elastic bands, the orthopedic trainer where you rehab should have some for free. What you do is get about a 3 foot length of the elastic band and tie it in a circle around something the height of your knee. Then stick your leg in the hole and align the elastic band tightly up against the back of your knee. Relax your leg and then flex it to a full extension, keeping your leg on the ground the whole time. It's hard to explain, but your leg should remain in virtually the same position the whole time, you're just tightening your leg muscles with the resistance from the band.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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