"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hi guys, a friend of mine recently guided me over to this website after I was talking to him about some girl problems I have been having. Maybe you guys can help me.

So anyways, there is a girl I have been talking to. I don't get to see her very often. Anyways, when I talk to her in person, she is very receptive. She agrees to do things with me, sometimes agreeing before I even finish saying where we should go. But, she never answers calls, or a text I sent her. What is going on? Is there anything I can do? All advice is appreciated in advance. Thanks!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If this girl isn't returning your calls or texts then unfortunately she's a lost cause. Women are to be judged on their actions, not their words, and to me her actions are saying plenty.

If I were you I'd stop trying to contact her. One unreturned voicemail is all should have taken. Time to move on! :rockon:

Here's a recent thread that might be of interest:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=136016
 
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