help sort this mess

[toasttopper1879]

Hello all.Nice to meet you.
Ok straight to the point.The girl i,m intersted in shows a few posative signs but also quite a few negative ones.I think i,ve fell into the friends catagory.What do you think.
She likes to tell me about her relations with other guys,such as kissing them and how highly she rates them.She is always tellingme what she desires from a guy and if i tease her about being a friend she tells me i,m her best friend.She says i give her good advice and i,m like her agony aunt.Shes recently told my friends that she saw me getting close to a girl in a disco although this isnt true and i had no idea she was watching when i spoke to people in these situations.
However she shows some interest.She flirts like mad with me,doesnt seem intimidated at all and seems to find me funny.
For some reason she seems to get very nervous when we talk and fiddles with anything she can get hold of(no puns please) like her jewellrey or a pen.
She does call ocasionally but she openly admits she expects me to call first.We dont socialise but she hints at it without commiting to anything.
Anyway enough for now.Any opinions and i,d be grateful.
cheers

 

[Six-String Samurai]

Unfortunately, this is all too common, and in my opinion, it's much worse than a girl that shows no interest at all.

To be frank with you, I don't believe this girl has any sexual interest in you as things stand now. You are currently fulfilling the role of emotional tampon, and unless immediate and drastic corrective action is taken, you could be fcuked.

Back when I was an AFC about 18 months ago, even after I'd already found this site and begun my transformation, I was getting in good with one of the hottest girls I've ever met in my life. I used to go with her everywhere, she'd want me to go with her for the most mundane chores. She would ***** about stupid **** to me, expect me to buy her dinners, and the most I ever got was to sleep in her bed with her for a few nights, and, miracle of miracles, kiss her on the lips a couple times one night when we were both a little sloshed. I got the worst blue balls from this situation, but you don't have to.

You need to do the whole "ganji games" thing with her. Read that thread in the tips forum. You need to quit this subserviant role asap. Good luck bro, you're gonna need it

 

[jakeyboy]

the ganji games should only be used by people who fully understand the concept of it... things may backfire if you misuse the ganji games...

 

[toasttopper1879]

so let the games begin.really i dont lnow how to play this as i work with the girl.work in each others faces so this gangi thing isnt a load of use.
mind not seen her snce thursday and i not texted or rang.neither has she mind.
now what