Help on getting the Digits.

[j0n024]

hello fellow DJ'rs I have a question that I would like to get answered if at all possible. I have been coming to this site for a while and read the tips and now am on the Forums, I am a beginner DJ and would like to get my game better like you guys. I know the tricks you use and am not afraid to go up to any women or girl and start up a conversation even if she is with her friends, I give lots of eye contact and make her understand what im doing. I touch her and make them laugh I even tell them to write down the number instead of asking for it, now comes the part I need help on. I can do all this and my record is pretty good since Ive barely started maybe like 3-5-1 the middle is I got bored(It happens) and the girl that brushed me off was really older then me and she had her B(tch shield up already so it wasnt a serious loss since I started talking to her friend instead. I need help closing the deal, like today I can talk to them real good tell them my intentions make them laugh the works....but when I start to close well ill show you....
ME: "What do you like to do for fun?"
HER:"I dont know party and stuff" *Smiling*
ME:"That's cool what are you doing for Halloween?"
HER:"I dont know nothing probably"*Still Smiling*
ME:"Why dont you give me your number and we can have some fun on Halloween then"
HER:*Smiling*"No I dont know"
Now that's when I lose interest and stop wasting my time, should I keep on trying for the number or did I do the right thing? I didnt want to make that mistake and become clingy and ask what about next week you know so I said "Ok but your missing out on some fun," Soo I need help how do I close the deal to get the digits more frequently and is it alright to tell her im going to hit on her?

 

[j0n024]

Bump...noone has any helpful tips for me?

 

[TheMaestro87]

The problem is not how you're asking, but that you're not creating the right attraction before going for it.

 

[j0n024]

Right attraction? Care to explain? Sorry remember Im still a beginner so I got a long way to go

 

[TheMaestro87]

You didn't really go into your convo enough. My point was that if she didn't give you the number, it's because she wasn't attracted to you, not because of how you asked her for the number.

 

[j0n024]

I see...but the convo was not that short! I just said the closing bit thats all I dont have enough memory to write down the whole convo but whatever, I thought she was into me but I guess not lol...guess ill try again this Saturday. Thanks for helping me out man.

 

[Thatfeel21]

nah id walk away, and maybe talk to her again in a few days with more confidence then not ask but almost deman for her to right down her math(number)..she seems that not into you though, so if you do get her number i'd wait 3-5 days to call her to make it seem as if shes a third option or something

 

[Bible_Belt]

You could be more specific than 'have some fun.' That sounds too much like 'have some sex,' and she feels slvtty giving you the #. If you could create a reason to get the number that creates genuine doubt that you might not be only after sex, that would be golden. Common ground helps.

 

[j0n024]

I see thanks Bible yes it does seem im looking for something more "Shady'' right off the bat...even though thats what I want lol. I actually did walk away though when she said no but with a big smile on her face I knew she was trying to play me so I just blew her off and went on the prowl again and got another girls number a lot older but hey I love older women , but I think she saw so at least I have my pride and if I meet her again she will know I dont need her number to have "FUN" lol.
What would you guys have used in my situation then?