"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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LoneSilver

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The last thing I want to do is annoy anyone here with my questions but I believe most who come here are not clucks but know more about what is going on but just need others opinion or view on the issues at hand or with the oppsite sex.

OK I asked this on the thread Girls Bending Over but this question is continued from there.

Now this girl works in the bakery area of a grocery store and this last Monday I had my 9 year old nephew with me. When I first came in I looked over toward the bakery area where she was and made eye contact and smiled and went on with my buisness but while at the fruit and veggies area I looked back over her way and she was gone just like that. Not thinking anything about it a short time later to my surprise here she comes walking toward me from the other side of the store like from the dairy area and I noticed as she approached she had a nice smile on her face and I ask while she was passing by how she was doing but she didn't answer.

Now today I walk in by myself look again over her way in the bakery area and I notice her back was facing me but I knew she way there and this time as I made my way in another direction of the store I happen to look back and she was as if trying to see where I went but I just went on with want I was doing. When I got down toward the eggs and water area on the other side of the store while looking at the water here she comes with a little boy and just as she got up toward me it was as if she made extra noise with the cart she had and went into the back of the store through the doors.

When I stepped back from the water I notice her standing there behind the doors just looking out toward me and not really sure if she knew I saw her I just smiled and went and cashed out.

It sort of freaked me out when I looked through the doors and there she was just standing there staring out at me which was pretty cool and didn't mind as I like this girl.

Now I know this kid she was with wasn't her's but the other employee that works in the bakery with her but it was like she was mirroring me from Monday when I had my nephew or something.

This girl is not hot 10 so to speak but she is maybe 5 or 6. Wears glasses and to a degree just your plane Jane but she has a certain confidence about her that makes her very sexy and desirable if you know what I mean and in my mind can be a hot 10.

What do you all think do you believe this behavour is a sign of interest or am I just reading to much into this and the only way to find out is just talk with her or what?

Am sorry this was so long and thanks a million for your time.

LoneSilver
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jay Jay

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Both.

Yep, she seems interested.

Yep, you're analysing too much and you should just go talk to her.

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Approach already -- she knows that you are stalking her!:rolleyes:

No, she didn't kidnap someone else's kid to mirror you:rolleyes:

Juat go up to her and say, "I like your baked goods" pause a few seconds so that she gets the double meaning of your statement - then, start ordering some items and then ask for her number as the last item but then abruptly state "but don't charge for it"

Do this and see what happens!
 

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OK thanks guys I will do my approach that was my thinking just needed to hear it from someone else.:up:

Peace

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In your next update you don't have to give us the details in what food aisle you were in or the layout of the store - save us time on reading.:rolleyes:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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