Help me Snap out of this

[captain55]

I think we all know it’s no secret that banging hot women is simply a game of numbers ...but what happens when you legitimately just don’t have the effort to put in it anymore? I’m 25...and quite frankly I’m worn out.

I’m at a point my life where I have been with so many hot women....and I realized that so few of them are actually worth it...that I just can’t justify to myself chasing hot women anymore.

For the record I have a legitimate 9 I am sitting on...that I have yet to ask out on a second date because her personality just ****ing sucks. My other side piece, while the sex is great, just pisses me off too much.

I bounce on the weekends, had an 8.5 come up to me and gave me her number. I text this chick and no response lmao. And I don’t care either.

Got the number of a bartender at a strip club Sunday and we are texting. Notice these women came to me though...

Sure if I see a hot chick in like at Starbucks I will game her...but it’s while I’m on the way out getting my coffee. I don’t have the energy to message random chicks on fb anymore....Or go out of my way to day game...it’s just too much effort.

What can I do t get my fire back? Between working 40 hours a week and working out, I’m just worn out and don’t have the patience to deal with it anymore. I see why guys use escorts...the **** you deal with dating hot women is incredibly frustrating. Too much maintence...maybe if I was rich as **** and didn’t have to work like crazy I would have the energy for it

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Most women suck. Anything new? Lmao

 

[Visionist]

Can't you take a holiday? Even a weekend. Somewhere far away where the girls are exotic to you and you're chilled out and might as well enjoy yourself.

 

[Spaz]

You just get tired of it all, even the s€x feels like a job that you have to do. It's no longer fun or exciting going through the motions.

You feel like you lost your mojo. Deep down it worries you.

Stop thinking, worrying, over analysing etc.

This is normal and you're not the only one experiencing it.

In my case, I take time off from women/work/city, a week at sea hunting or in the mountains or I'll solo hunt in the jungle. It helps me get back my mojo and I'm all juiced up for maybe 6 months or so.

 

[MrWood]

live your life, if one of these women wants to fall in along side of your life... great, otherwise enjoy YOURSELF

 

[The Duke]

Take a break from all of them. In the future be more selective about the women you decide to have relations with. Require more than looks and fun.

I had 3 girls texting me this past wknd. 2 begging to see me and both pretty much invited themselves over. The third is begging to get back together. It all turns me off so I "covertly" turned all 3 down(just like a chic would do). And I took a trip, went to some concerts, hung out with my buddies, and just did ME! Freakin great.

A guy reaches a point in life when he needs to filter harder and require more.

 

[flowtheory]

Pour energy into building yourself in other ways. Things in life, ideally, should create more energy than diminish. So give energy to the things which may lay dormant in your life - passion projects, courses, classes, reading, a trip.
Sounds like you’re letting women chew up your energy more than they should. We’ve all been there; it’s draining and it adds nothing.
You’re simply overheated right now. Time to cool off and get back to your state of equilibrium.

 

[Roober]

Start focusing more on yourself. How are ypubfurthering your career? Growing your money? Developing your intellect? Developing your body?

Stop dating women who are not a good fit. Your forcing a square peg into a round whole just to get laid.

Sounds like you get pissed with women a lot, what can you do to change that?

 

[oldmanofthesea]

What's the problem? You are saying, "I don't like candy anymore, what should I do?" Just stop eating candy until you feel like eating candy again.

Honestly it doesn't sound to me like you have a problem. Sounds like you've reached the next level of enlightenment lol.

 

[btownbuck2012]

I think we all know it’s no secret that banging hot women is simply a game of numbers ...but what happens when you legitimately just don’t have the effort to put in it anymore? I’m 25...and quite frankly I’m worn out.

I’m at a point my life where I have been with so many hot women....and I realized that so few of them are actually worth it...that I just can’t justify to myself chasing hot women anymore.

For the record I have a legitimate 9 I am sitting on...that I have yet to ask out on a second date because her personality just ****ing sucks. My other side piece, while the sex is great, just pisses me off too much.

I bounce on the weekends, had an 8.5 come up to me and gave me her number. I text this chick and no response lmao. And I don’t care either.

Got the number of a bartender at a strip club Sunday and we are texting. Notice these women came to me though...

Sure if I see a hot chick in like at Starbucks I will game her...but it’s while I’m on the way out getting my coffee. I don’t have the energy to message random chicks on fb anymore....Or go out of my way to day game...it’s just too much effort.

What can I do t get my fire back? Between working 40 hours a week and working out, I’m just worn out and don’t have the patience to deal with it anymore. I see why guys use escorts...the **** you deal with dating hot women is incredibly frustrating. Too much maintence...maybe if I was rich as **** and didn’t have to work like crazy I would have the energy for it

I can painfully relate to this. I have ZERO tolerance for any type of attitude from women these days. ZERO.

The hottest woman I've ever had sex with was an hour late to our first date. I got the bang on the 2nd date but then she ghosted. It's like, what kind of moron behaves that way? LOL that moron could be both her and I. I'm done with putting up with gross disrespect just to have sex. I can't do it anymore.

 

[Visionist]

I can painfully relate to this. I have ZERO tolerance for any type of attitude from women these days. ZERO.

The hottest woman I've ever had sex with was an hour late to our first date.

I remember waiting over 40 minutes after the agreed time for a date who then showed up with her heavyset cousin. It went nowhere of course. Today I'd wait 30 minutes at the absolute most and leave, maybe shooting her a "it's time for my run, I'm leaving" text or maybe not.