"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Help Me Out!? Ladies Probs

cesar

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i got problems when speaking normally to girls'... i dont know what to say, what random questions can i ask?

questions after questions' outter the blue that i can say to keep the conversation going?? can u help

also another dilemma; theres its girl at college that i like, but only as a friend;i got few topics we got in common like' music, and both of are parents have the same background...i know theres a good chance of us being friends...but besides talking about are family roots and music...
i dont know what else to say to her....

can anyone help me please, i need some advice!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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(JJ)

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also id say try to steer more towards statements rather than questions. statements are the way old friends who have known each other for ever communicate. questions are the way cops doing a post homicide interview communicate. lol
 

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just dont over do the statements thing (cough ELSTUD cough)
 
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