Help me lay this girl....

[pingpongz]

Alright started talking to this girl about 2 weeks ago... been out with her a couple times ... she really likes me(told me several times and i can tell).

So far the only progress ive made is touching her boobs and kissing. Shes coming to stay the night at my place next week because we live about 40 minutes away from each other.
Tonight she said that she doesn't want to have sex with me yet but wants to wait a few months first because shes scared sex will ruin what we have !?
Important to note that she is not a virgin i know this for a fact

I must get into her panties. Advice plz ? Perhaps its just a **** test to see if im just in it for the sex ?

 

[Mad Manic]

Alright started talking to this girl about 2 weeks ago... been out with her a couple times ... she really likes me(told me several times and i can tell).

So far the only progress ive made is touching her boobs and kissing. Shes coming to stay the night at my place next week because we live about 40 minutes away from each other.
Tonight she said that she doesn't want to have sex with me yet but wants to wait a few months first because shes scared sex will ruin what we have !?
Important to note that she is not a virgin i know this for a fact

I must get into her panties. Advice plz ? Perhaps its just a **** test to see if im just in it for the sex ?

LOL it's just her way of protecting herself from looking like a slut, anti-slut defense. She isn't a virgin and she is coming round to yours at nightime, that means only one thing mate. Just the usual drill, get her relaxed and into a good mood, slowly escalate physically and verbally then go for the kill. If she gives you resistance, just rinse and repeat until she gives in. If she doesn't give in, just get up and go check your emails or whatever. She'll come back begging for more (hopefully). Judge her body language and actions, not her words.

MM

 

[ARrocket]

yeah, I agree. Just keep doing what you do,and don't worry about what she's saying right now.

 

[DonGorgon]

..she said that she doesn't want to have sex with me yet but wants to wait a few months first because shes scared sex will ruin what we have !? ...

Translate to:
"I want to f you when i come over but I want you do tell me that you will keep treating me nice after i give it up..."

You must at least try to f this girl , if you dont she will interpret that caring on your part as weakness

 

[splinterkb]

To get in her panties you need to show that you like her for who she is and you're not just chasing tail which is what she's afraid of. Just act like you agree. When it starts gettin hot and heavy with you guys, chances are her mind will change because she's turned on.. give it a whirl then. Don't ask her if she wants to, just take charge.

 

[HalfAddict]

Saying I don't want to have sex is just an ASD...

My ex the first time we did it was at my friends wedding... SHE suggested we get a hotel room... This was like our second date..

So later in the night before the reception was over guess what she says.... No sex tonight... Guess what happened when we got to the room? I jumped her bones and she says wanna do it? So we did... Like six times.

The last girl I was with.
We went out to dinner and then back to her place and talk for a while, And she says you want me to take you home, or we could just stay here, it's cool you can share my bed with me but I'm not having sex with you tonight, so you know.
I don't think I need to elaborate on what happened that night.

You get the picture though.

Get comfort/build rapport, Kino, More Kino.

 

[Sexual]

This happened to me with a girl that insisted that she's never been with a guy in less than 4 months of dating. It was true (I met an ex)... we ended up dating for 8 months and it was great for a while.

I'm really good at what I do, and the fact that it still took me over 2 months really gave me a confidence boost as the guy that made her knees weak and that she really felt a connection with me.

Futhermore, she gained my respect. But ask yourself--is this the kind of girl you can see on your arm and feeling emotion for?

If not, quit as soon as your patience wears thin.

 

[pingpongz]

This happened to me with a girl that insisted that she's never been with a guy in less than 4 months of dating. It was true (I met an ex)... we ended up dating for 8 months and it was great for a while.

I'm really good at what I do, and the fact that it still took me over 2 months really gave me a confidence boost as the guy that made her knees weak and that she really felt a connection with me.

Futhermore, she gained my respect. But ask yourself--is this the kind of girl you can see on your arm and feeling emotion for?

If not, quit as soon as your patience wears thin.

Thats what im planning... if i dont get sex in a week shes gone and im moving on to the next one.

 

[Wiesman44]

Alright started talking to this girl about 2 weeks ago... been out with her a couple times ... she really likes me(told me several times and i can tell).

So far the only progress ive made is touching her boobs and kissing. Shes coming to stay the night at my place next week because we live about 40 minutes away from each other.
Tonight she said that she doesn't want to have sex with me yet but wants to wait a few months first because shes scared sex will ruin what we have !?
Important to note that she is not a virgin i know this for a fact

I must get into her panties. Advice plz ? Perhaps its just a **** test to see if im just in it for the sex ?

I'd be careful with that statement how it will 'ruin things'. I've had a few girls that said crap like that, and soon as I actually had sex w/ them.....the sex was bloody horrible. And to top it off, they didn't really want to have sex that often.

Moral of the story: Whether she means it or is testing u, still I'd be very careful. Sex is important. If she doesn't value it, ditch the b#tch.

 

[JackPrescott]

Alright started talking to this girl about 2 weeks ago... been out with her a couple times ... she really likes me(told me several times and i can tell).

So far the only progress ive made is touching her boobs and kissing. Shes coming to stay the night at my place next week because we live about 40 minutes away from each other.
Tonight she said that she doesn't want to have sex with me yet but wants to wait a few months first because shes scared sex will ruin what we have !?
Important to note that she is not a virgin i know this for a fact

I must get into her panties. Advice plz ? Perhaps its just a **** test to see if im just in it for the sex ?

Candy is dandy, but liquor is Quicker!!! Get some sweet drinks made tonite, and have some "sensual massage" books within reach. A combination of a drunken mind, and sensual photos should do the trick.

 

[Wiesman44]

Candy is dandy, but liquor is Quicker!!! Get some sweet drinks made tonite, and have some "sensual massage" books within reach. A combination of a drunken mind, and sensual photos should do the trick.

Horrible advice. Based on what she said to him, she's gonna know whats going on soon as the liquor is mixed w/ a massage. Girls aren't stupid. He can really f#ck things up by going that route. Then she's gonna think thats all he wants, and thats it.