"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm surrounded by attainable chicks yet am unable to act. The desire is there, but there's no will.

By "attainable chicks" I mean girls who average about 6.7 on the hotness scale. Anything above simply does not exist for me.

I made progress a while ago. I attained a chick. I made out with her, felt her up...but then I stopped trying after that relationship fell apart.

I got a phone number recently. From a fugly. My self-contempt has never been higher.

Why is it so hard?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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And what exactly would you like help with? No-one can motivate you to have more will, or improve your negative mindset.
 
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hopeful loner said:
I'm surrounded by attainable chicks yet am unable to act. The desire is there, but there's no will.

By "attainable chicks" I mean girls who average about 6.7 on the hotness scale. Anything above simply does not exist for me.

I made progress a while ago. I attained a chick. I made out with her, felt her up...but then I stopped trying after that relationship fell apart.

I got a phone number recently. From a fugly. My self-contempt has never been higher.

Why is it so hard?
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I dont see where you get off calling a girl a "fugly" when you obviously arent mr hotshot yourself. You dont have to like her, but please, based on what ive read you dont seem like anything special and you ought to give "fuglies" a try because with that attitude thats all youre going to get.
 
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