"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Help me... Down on myself.

WesCottII

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Well, look up my msn in my profile mate. We're quite similar....I'm a rugby full back. I've been through all the self improvement malarky.

I'd be happy to talk.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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BenPW-DJNewbie said:
most of the people who play rugby are the cool guys in our school and ijust made friends with ALL of them.neat.:D
Good! Be sure to hang out with those guys and learn what they do around women. Not all of them are going to be really good with girls, but I would bet some of them are. You'll learn a lot by hanging around people who are already good at what they do. This is true in any aspect of life.
 

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Wolf said:
Unfortunately the "cool" kids in my school are the ones with knives and guns... Meh

Just wait a few years. When you were jeleous of them because they "lost their V's" first, they're still with the same bird, with loadsa kids, working as painter/decoraters. It's funny, the kids who used to laugh at me....well, they're working at supermarkets, while I'm doing model photoshoots. It feels SO good :D
 
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