"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Help! How would a DJ reply to this girl off match.com?

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This girl is from out of the country and doesn't speak very good english but I got her to like me on match.com. She replied to my initial email, I replied back, and this is what she wrote back to me. I want to move in for the close but I need to be smooth. Any brothers can help me out? Here's the email from her:
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How are you????
I'm ok.........................
Is good to know more about you,,,,thanks!!!!
I'm going to stay here in US for 2 years,,,,,,I live with an american family....the work is just a little...about 20 hours per week....the rest of the time is free and for me.....In my free time I go to the College....NOVA and i study English....also i study enlish in a church.....this class are very good and free,,,,,,,,all the weekends just i go out of mi house and i sleep in some friend's house......but never I'm here durign the weekend.
I have about 8 firends,,,,,,almost all Chilean,,,,an american guy and other from El salvador.......but my best friend here live is from Chile and she lives here very close to me.....so....we spend many hours per day together.
I miss my family and my country a lot.........sometimes i feel that i hurt my heart.....but I'll try to enjoy herein US.
about me.......i'm not fashion,,,just i go to the mall when i really need something,,,,but i love perfumes and make-up.....i think that this is the only part fashion on me.
I love to see the stars in the night because it make me feel a girl "down to earth"....You can to see that you are so small in this world.......
I'm going to saty off from match.com during the weekend...today i'm going to sleep outside......so I hope to hear from you very soonnnnn because i leave the house about 6pm........
What is for you CHAT???? msn....talk online....????
I never use msn or some service online becouse this computer is not mine is of the family,,,and they don't have this program in this computer........
Hey do you speak Italian or not?????
Tell me more about you........
So....write me before 6pm.....or we'll be in touch the next monday.
have a nice day.
Un abrazo
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Alpine
You say 'Green Card- u luv me long time?'
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LOLL!

but seriously she's pretty hot and I at least would like to hit it.. so how would you reply?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Anybody going to help me out with a serious answer? This is some easy booty if I give her a good reply.
 
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I give you 5 dolla... you love me long tyme?

Ohh wait sorry i though she was azn.. hmmm italian huh?

sounds hot, but like someone already said she just wants a green card.

When is she coming over?
Is she going to stay by you?

I'd talk to her on msn or something like she suggested and find that out before you get your hopes up.

Then i'd probably suggest getting together when she's over here and doing something fun.
 
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Not sure about the green card thing.. but the girl is pretty cute and I wouldn't mind meeting her.
Anyway, can you just tell me should I reply today or wait till Sunday? And should I ask for her #, or just giver her mine?
She doesn't have MSN.. she said she can't use chat I asked her about that. Oh, and she's already here .. she is livving pretty close to me.

BTW.. this girl is already here in the USA for 2 years ... did u guys think she is out of the country now and I'm pursuing that??
 
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Ummm she's sleeping outside? What is she like a maid or something? Sounds like Bullsh*t to me...

all the weekends just i go out of mi house and i sleep in some friend's house......but never I'm here durign the weekend.
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have about 8 firends,,,,,,almost all Chilean,,,,an american guy and other from El salvador.......but my best friend here live is from Chile and she lives here very close to me.....so....we spend many hours per day together.
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Why do i have a strange feeling that she's nailing one of these guys right about now?

Alright if you want to go ahead with this...


Think of something fun you two could do together, and tell you're doing this and that and if she would like to come along...

I'm not very familiar with online dating so you might want to ask someone who has experience in how to do this online.
However i would advise you to WAIT!!!

So....write me before 6pm.....or we'll be in touch the next monday.
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Patience... Patience young one.
She has high IL and wants you to talk to her, this doesn't mean you should do everything she says.
If she's not bone-ing one of those chillean guys right now, she'll probably be thinking about you and whether or not she'll hear back from you.

Well if you want to be the girl... give her your number and wait by the phone untill she calls.
What kind of question is that?
If you've read the bible you should know what to do!!!

And the end of the night go to a secluded area under the stars, and fu*k her brains out.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Jake-inator
Aww how cute she wants to hear back from you before she heads out to scout for some **** in the italian night clubs...

LOL i hope you're not planning on paying for the long distance phone calls to italy?
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Jake... she is in America already! read my post above yours and she lives close to me.
 
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Originally posted by Jake-inator
Ummm she's sleeping outside? What is she like a maid or something?
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I don't know.. maybe she likes to sleep outside she said she likes seeing the stars or whatever.

Now, for the record... this girl is currently in the USA, lives close to me, and is showing high interest level.

Now should I email her back today before 6 or not? Should I ask for her # or give her mine instead?
 
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Why email her back before 6? Because she told you to? She said you wont talk until monday anyway, so what's the rush? Email her on Tuesday, haha, that will drive her nuts. Oh, and tell her to give you her phone number.
 
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Originally posted by BrotherAP
Why email her back before 6? Because she told you to? She said you wont talk until monday anyway, so what's the rush? Email her on Tuesday, haha, that will drive her nuts. Oh, and tell her to give you her phone number.
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Thanks Brother. I think I am going to go ahead and email her now though. I am going to ask for her phone #, but also offer mine. Who knows maybe she'll call tonight to bang under the stars LOL! I'm not really stressing this girl so I don't care about playing the waiting game... let's see what happens.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well Dauymm she already replied and she gave me her cell phone #. Now I guess I'll just wait till Sunday and giver her a call.
 
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